Suggested reading:

[elionwyr]

Narcissism.

Gaslighting.

Triangulation.

Defamation of Character.

Internet Libel.

Internet Abuse.

How to help someone involved with a narcissist.

Think of kindness as your Kevlar, and karma as your shield.

Comments

[softlywhispered]

Preparing for something, sweet?

[elionwyr]

Just stuff worth reading.

:)

[glinda_w]

Unscreened, I see... *quiet, evil grin*

[elionwyr]

Well.

Let's call a spade a spade, shall we?

:)

[glinda_w]

Oh yes. *chuckle*

(I clicked & read all the things you linked to... there are things I want to/ought to be doing today, but am crashing a bit too much, so... oh hai Internets *wry*)

[janusaries]

Yes. OMG, yes. And multiple people with psych backgrounds can't figure it out. Or are too cowed to speak up.

Other reading material

[janusaries]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology)

The second paragraph in this article nails it.

And this is the largest (and most epiphany-producing) knowledge bases about narcissism on the Internet.

http://samvak.tripod.com/siteindex.html

Pay special attention to:
False Self
Sources of Narcissistic Supply
Pathological Narcisssistic Space

Re: Other reading material

[elionwyr]

Thank you!

[softlywhispered]

Oh don't forget to look into Gaslighting. I have a feeling this falls into some of what they're doing/have done as well.

[elionwyr]

Good point.

[janusaries]

Yup. Have had this link bookmarked for over 2 years:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting