Actual Epiphanies

[elizabethunity]

Ok, so I think I'm moving back to Kansas, at least for the next year before I head off to a PhD program. I'm really nervous about this because I'm scared. I want to be near Kearsten (we would not be moving in together). And I'm really ready to move on with my adult life and stop waiting for my family life to suddenly be positive. But I'm really

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[nipples_akimbo]

I have important (/sleepy) things to tell you.
1) You should go where it is healthy for you to go.
2) Kearston seems legit. She gets my vote.
2.1) Regardless, you should go where you have support and can be as happy as life lets people be.

[quotedwriter]

I'm basically going to agree with everything Patrice said. I think Kearsten is great. But more than anything, what is life if you don't take risks? Of course it's a risk to move back to Kansas, but I think you've got to experience that, especially if a large part of you is telling you that that's what you want. If things were to not work out between you and Kearsten, wouldn't you rather know that you tried than that you played it safe?