BAH!
Family, can't live with them, can't kill them without jail time.
Ok, maybe kill is a bit harsh...
So my Dad passed away January 10th. He died in his sleep in his home. I've had a rough time coping, but overall I'm ok.
Dad left his house to me and had my Grandfather be executor of his will. The night he died, we were at his house & my eldest uncle (dad had 11 siblings, he's the 2nd to pass away) took care of changing the locks that night. One key went to me, one key went to Grandpa.
I've been out of it & haven't done a lot of cleaning things out/going through stuff, but I didn't feel welcome at all.
Now I'm being told that everything has to be moved out of the house. I have no idea what is going on at all. And best of all, I went over today after work to see what really needs to get gotten rid of, make an inventory & get pictures of the bigger items -- and my key doesn't work!
I know I should be surprised, and a part of me is, but mostly I'm just pissed off & disappointed. I haven't been close to my family for a while & I really don't think I ever will be again.
I don't feel like confronting them. Yet I really want to. I just want this to be over.
Ok, maybe kill is a bit harsh...
So my Dad passed away January 10th. He died in his sleep in his home. I've had a rough time coping, but overall I'm ok.
Dad left his house to me and had my Grandfather be executor of his will. The night he died, we were at his house & my eldest uncle (dad had 11 siblings, he's the 2nd to pass away) took care of changing the locks that night. One key went to me, one key went to Grandpa.
I've been out of it & haven't done a lot of cleaning things out/going through stuff, but I didn't feel welcome at all.
Now I'm being told that everything has to be moved out of the house. I have no idea what is going on at all. And best of all, I went over today after work to see what really needs to get gotten rid of, make an inventory & get pictures of the bigger items -- and my key doesn't work!
I know I should be surprised, and a part of me is, but mostly I'm just pissed off & disappointed. I haven't been close to my family for a while & I really don't think I ever will be again.
I don't feel like confronting them. Yet I really want to. I just want this to be over.