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Jul 17, 2006 10:17

so let me see. can anyone just turn my brain off that would be lovely. just wounderful. here is my delema(s) my sister caitlyn who is 11 wants to see my dad again. i think it is because she has forced herself to forget everything that happened. that and she is still young. i don't think i could ever forget i mean 14 years of hitting and kicking ( Read more... )

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ses_gatergirl July 17 2006, 19:54:14 UTC

*hugs you*

It sucks when people are trying to blackmail you like that. Especially when they're adults.
Btw, Caitlin hasn't necessarily forgotten what happened. It might be that she's still got hope that your dad might change. That and younger kids are easier to convince with promisses.
Maybe you and Caitlin should talk to your mum about it? Caitlin will easier accept your mum's opinion than yours, if it's one she doesn't like. It's a siblings thing ;)

Do your half sisters live close by?

elle_the_geek July 17 2006, 20:00:16 UTC

it is just a little hard right now. mom still doesn't trust him but she says it is our choice. it's kinda like saying i wouldn't do that if i were yooou...
O_O life is soo confusing.

ses_gatergirl July 18 2006, 07:33:23 UTC

Well, she probably has good reason not to trust him and she wants to protect you. But she probably also realises that if she forbids you to go see your dad, that that'll only upset you and your sister.

If you do want to meet your dad, it might be a good idea to do that in a public place. Go to a park for the day or so.

elle_the_geek July 18 2006, 21:54:20 UTC

i think that is a good idea ^_^

arrietty July 17 2006, 21:58:31 UTC

Your sister most probably wont be happy until she sees your father again. The best way is to fix up a supervised visit. Maybe with a relative or even her teacher, a responsible adult that can be in the same room so this way you and your sister can feel safe.

Are you affiliated with a church anywhere? Most churches have a youth pastor or vicar or priest that would be willing to sit with you. Maybe your school councilor could sort something out.

It certainly would be lovely to get together with your half sisters and see how they are getting on.

elle_the_geek July 18 2006, 22:08:12 UTC

no we don't go to church. (i'm buddhist^_^) i think you are right i would love to see my little sisters again that would be awesome but i just don't know. @_@ i think we should go see him but i think shelly would have to be there and maybe my mom too. actually. i dunno know about the mom thing (might be a bad idea...) and i would definatly have to be there . i wouldn't let cait go alone..