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[elliedee]

I turned down a job today. A job that would have gotten me somewhat through Christmas and would have been fun in a lot of ways. I turned it down because they wouldn't pay what I'm worth nor even what I've made in the past doing the same job at the same place. (Frankly, I was a little insulted.) I've been agitated about it all day. Probably because

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[ann_mcn]

As to being trained, my mother sent mixed signals -- I was fussed at if I made waves in any way, but I was supposed to be "ambitious." I've never learned how to do the negotiating for money, partially because every time I've set an ultimatum, I've had to follow through.

At least you have some income happening, but I wish the other had worked out.

[tempest_gypsy]

I'm right there with you. I've forced myself to start doing some quick mental calculations, and if I'm not even making minimum wage for a gig, I force myself to turn it down.

It's hard, isn't it? Especially when everything is "an opportunity to advance your career and make new networking connections, so it should be worth your while, anyway." *sigh*

[inannamoon]

Hey gorgeous. I just got access back to this site this week at the day job! Maybe I can be more connected again!

I wanted to say I feel your pain- I have done the same with dance. I am very lucky in that I have the day job that allows me to try to stand my ground. But sometimes, when work is tight for Chaz, I find myself lowering my worth to try to get some extra private lessons to make ends meet. I hate that, and i regret it later. It's such a fine line!

Miss you tons, much love to you and Yam!
me!