i love you. there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, or anyone, for that matter, who is attracted to those of the same sex. and i agree with your rant completely.
Look, they dont mean harm, i know them...they are really nice people, just brought up differently than... most of us. But they are good people. I know what you mean, and theres nothing wrong with being gay, my brother is gay... i LOVE him, and im fine with him loving his boyfriend also. Im a total Fag Hag so to speak.And, Im not defending Dee and Kristina at all, because i dont agree with them either. but we were all raised differently, so your completely justified in your rant, and you made excellent points, no doubt about that, just sometimes, you have to look over it, and be the bigger person so to speak, and just...be like pssh and brush it off. cuz no matter where you go, theres always going to be people who think like that....again, im not defending them at all. but like i said, your right, and completely justified in your rant...
Re: *sighs*i_heart_ashliAugust 21 2004, 19:56:50 UTC
thanks alot for supporting the gay community. But like it is so hard hearing from so many people that something you are is wrong. And its not like I chose to be gay. I'm proud of my homosexuality but if I could have chosen, I would have been straight. No one wants to feel any different then they have to. And Its people like Dee and Kristina that make it so hard and so horrible to come out. I just had to speak on it.
No problem im all for homosexuality... and ive delt with stuff like this over the years, ever since i found out that my brother was gay, ive delt with everything, especialy since.. i live in Texas... BLEH so being a liberal Dem. with a Gay brother, doesnt mean I conform well with most. lol. its good that your proud of who you are, and i know that you cant choose who you love, its like i was born straight, i didnt choose it. Same with everyone else...They dont mean harm, its just the way they were raised, but I understand how you feel for the most part. I <3 ya. and dont worry, just keep being proud of who you are.
"Should an impotent man not be aloud to get married? What about an infertal woman? Should they not be aloud to get married? Just because we can't help further over populate this planet, should we not be able to get married?" I always put that in my Gay Marriage views in rating communitites if the ask. I also use the example of two 80 year olds getting married, she can't have children, so you're saying that they can't get marrried either? I think that you are so awesome just to tell those stuck up homophobes out there the truth. PS: I'm adding you. Add me back?
PS: Its weired because I'm watching Bravo right now, and the show "Gay Weddings" is on. I wish you and your girlfriend the best:) <3Angelle
I dotn know if this helps any... but...xripxthexskinxAugust 21 2004, 20:29:06 UTC
i am talking to Dee right now, and she feels really horrible she says
i didnt mean for me to sound like a bitch, i just feel terrible about it,but i was brought up through what the bible teaches and when i was being brought up i wasnt around people of the homosexual prefrence thing. will she ever forgive me. im not a horrible human being, and i personally dont want to be told i'll be going to hell...i really am sorry if i hurt her in anyway. i have a lesbian friend. she';s cool, but its just not something i agree with. it does hurt me though, i mean i didnt do it to make someone feel bad.
thats what she told me on aim. i dont know if it helps any at all. but...i think she wanted you to know that she is really sorry.
Re: I dotn know if this helps any... but...i_heart_ashliAugust 21 2004, 21:15:41 UTC
I really honestly didn't mean to start a huge like anarchy. I was just stating my feelings. I don't hold anything aganist either one of the people who said anti-homosexual things. The reason I said that she would be in hell with me is because her and others like her pass judgement on other people, and, correct me if I'm wrong, thats frowned upon by the big J.C. As a jew, I honestly don't care about what the bible says. But it just upsets me that people still are so closed minded.
Re: I dotn know if this helps any... but...xripxthexskinxAugust 21 2004, 22:25:33 UTC
i understand... i hope things work out for the best and everyone learned a little something. <333. and no you arent wrong, but some people interperate the bible in there won ways.
I am sorry..kristina89August 21 2004, 20:45:49 UTC
Oh God. I feel awful about this whole thing. I don't want to appear like a rude, insensitive bitch. I don't think I am one, hopefully you don't either. I was just brought up that way, around the bible and around my church. I don't have anything wrong at all with gay people. Only the marriage part. You do have good points. But it's just not what I agree with. I am very sorry for making you feel as if you have been doing anything wrong because of one's morals. And for the marriage topic of how I was brought up on it by what the bible says etc. I am so very sorry again. And I don't think that if someone believes if something is wrong they will go to hell. I don't think that if I don't agree with something I should be thought of as an awful person. I don't want to make you feel bad at all. And I feel awful because of it. I am sorry..and I feel even worse about being singled out as a hypocrite. ..
Re: I am sorry..i_heart_ashliAugust 21 2004, 21:10:50 UTC
I accept your appology but saying you don't agree with someone being a homosexual is exactly like saying "that guys a nice guy but i don't agree with the fact that he's black."
Re: I am sorry..kristina89August 22 2004, 10:14:18 UTC
If you have missed my point..I didn't say I had anything against homosexuals. It is only the marriage part.. It's just how I was brought up. And actually. Me thinking that there is nothing wrong with homosexuals is going against what I was raised. I didn't anything against homosexuals. Only gay marriage. I am sorry. And I hope you are understanding what I was getting at before. And when I say 'understanding'..I mean as what I was talking about. Not agreeing to it. Thank you.. And I am again sorry. I am really not a bad person at all.
Re: I am sorry..allysun212August 22 2004, 11:55:29 UTC
well...you cant take everything the Bible says so literally anyway. I mean the Bible was used to justify slavery and we all (or I guess most people) see that as being wrong now. Also, the Bible has been used to "keep women in their place" so to say by telling them that they are not men's equals. The Bible was written by man, not God, so there is room for error. There are many books left out of the Bible because they did not fit the beliefs of what those putting the final version together believed in. I dont know...I dont want to offend anyone either but I see the Bible as somewhat hypocritical and used a lot as a tool to keep people submissive.
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PS: I'm adding you. Add me back?
PS: Its weired because I'm watching Bravo right now, and the show "Gay Weddings" is on.
I wish you and your girlfriend the best:)
<3Angelle
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i didnt mean for me to sound like a bitch, i just feel terrible about it,but i was brought up through what the bible teaches and when i was being brought up i wasnt around people of the homosexual prefrence thing. will she ever forgive me. im not a horrible human being, and i personally dont want to be told i'll be going to hell...i really am sorry if i hurt her in anyway. i have a lesbian friend. she';s cool, but its just not something i agree with. it does hurt me though, i mean i didnt do it to make someone feel bad.
thats what she told me on aim. i dont know if it helps any at all. but...i think she wanted you to know that she is really sorry.
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It's just how I was brought up. And actually. Me thinking that there is nothing wrong with homosexuals is going against what I was raised. I didn't anything against homosexuals. Only gay marriage.
I am sorry. And I hope you are understanding what I was getting at before. And when I say 'understanding'..I mean as what I was talking about. Not agreeing to it.
Thank you..
And I am again sorry. I am really not a bad person at all.
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