Meme
1: Let’s start with a tricky one; what is the real reason you are confused right now?
Money.
2: Do you ever get “good morning” texts from anyone?
Every now and again, generally the BBF when it happens.
3: If your significant other smoked pot, would you care?
It depends. If it was a once-in-a-while thing and he was conscientious about how that fit in with his work life, then no, not at all. If it was a constant thing, though, that would be a problem.
4: Do you find it easy to trust others?
I'm not naturally a very trusting person, but I make a conscious choice and effort to trust the people with whom I have significant relationships completely, and frequently that choice gets made shortly after meeting them before we even become more than acquaintances; I'm pretty good at reading people, and have yet to regret making a split-second choice to trust someone courtesy of my initial reaction. (That's not to say I haven't been hurt but, well, humans are emotionally clumsy people, we hurt each other whether we mean to or not.)
5: What were you doing at 11PM last night?
Trying really, really hard to make myself go to bed since I had to be at church by seven.
6: You’re drunk and lost walking down the road; who is with you?
Nobody, I'm very cautious about when and where I get drunk; it's only happened twice, both times at home with friends after I was 21.
7: What would you do if you found out you had been cheated on?
If he told me right after it happened, we could talk through it and figure out what's wrong with our relationship and take steps towards fixing it. If I found out about it after the fact and he never told me, that would be the end; I trust the people I love absolutely, and once that trust is gone, there's nothing.
8: Are you close with your dad?
No, though we're better than we were.
9: I bet you kissed someone last night, right?
Not at all.
10: What are you listening to?
Out of Thin Air, from one of the Aladdins
11: You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life - what is it?
Well, water, I guess.
12. Do you like hickeys?
Haven't had one, would really like to continue that trend.
13: What time do you go to bed?
Around one, generally, though that needs to happen earlier.
14: Is there someone who continuously lets you down?
Mmhmm. Some people are flaky; you either accept that as part of the package or let them go.
15: Can you text as quickly with one hand as you do both?
I could on my old phone, the QWERTY keyboard really needs both, though.
16: Do you always answer your texts?
Yes, mostly, unless I glance at it when I can't respond and then forget about it.
17: Do you hate the person you fell the hardest for?
I've been really romantically interested in very few people, and remain dear friends with all but one of them.
18: When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?
On the phone? Um...Tuesday, maybe? I think Tuesday the BBF and I talked. I'm texting both of them now.
19: Is there someone that makes you happy every time you see them?
Oh, yes, a few of them! I'm blessed with lots of fantastic people around me.
20: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?
I don't actually remember, it was one of those where you just drop into unconsciousness.
21: Is anyone else in the room with you?
Not unless you count Bradley Hathaway...which I wouldn't, as he's in my computer.
22: Do you believe what goes around comes around?
For the most part, I think things have a way of working out.
23: Were you happier four months ago than you are now?
Yes. I needed the break, but I'm not a fan of times school isn't in session; I miss people, and four months ago the BBF was here.
24: Is there someone you wish you could fix things with?
Yes, but it's not in my hands anymore. I told them I loved and cared about them and let go. And as the cliche goes, if they come back, I'll know they're mine; if they don't, they never were. I don''t think they're ready to be anyone's.
25: In the past week, have you cried?
Yep.
26: What colour is the shirt you are wearing?
White. It's a men's beater, I'm super classy right now.
27: Do people ever call you by your last name?
Rarely. One guy at school calls me by my last name, another has a nickname for me that involves a rhyme with my (incorrectly pronounced) last name.
28: Is anyone ignoring you right now?
Haha, see 24. I don't think it's intentional or really about me.
29: Do you have a best friend?
A couple - they're awesome!
30: Would it be hard seeing someone else kiss the last person you kissed?
Seeing as how that's no one...nope, I'm fine with that :) Unless you mean casual frienpeck kinda kiss, in which case, no, it wouldn't bother me a bit.
31: Who was your last call from?
My mom; I'd called to ask her about nails (the hardware kind, gosh I can't make myself care about the real ones), and she was calling me back.
32: Are you mad at anyone?
Not really. I don't do well holding onto anger.
33: Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
In a friendly way, not kiss-kissed them.
34: How old will the last person you kissed be on his/her next birthday?
Early twenties.
35: How many more days until your birthday?
A bunch, it's April 17.
36: Do you have any summer plans yet?
So much work. And then some directing work. And some art.
37: Do you have any good friends of the opposite sex?
Yes, I generally get along better with men, actually. The BBF is, obviously, a boy.
38: Are you keeping anything from your best friend(s) now?
Not actively; there are things that haven't been said, but no one can know anyone completely.
39: Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?
Well that would be tipping my hand, wouldn't it?
40: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?
Oh, yes.
41: Do you think age matters in relationships?
Being in the same place in life matters, and age generally plays into that.
42: Are you available?
Yup.
43: How many people have you had real, strong feelings for since high school ended?
Two.
44: If you had to get a piercing (not ears), what would you get?
:D
45: Do you believe exes can be friends?
I think it depends on the relationship and the way it ends.
46: Do you regret anything?
Everyone has regrets. But most of the things I wish I'd done differently I couldn't have done differently without having lived through it once, so...*shrug*
47: Honestly, what’s on your mind right now?
Trying to decide if I want to shave or not; my legs won't show in this dress, but it makes me feel better...
48: Did you ever lose a best friend?
Of course. People grow and change. I've never had a big, traumatic ending with one, though, we've just...well, that's a lie, I once told one she was a bitch when I heard her call me a name behind my back and walked away and never spoke to her again, but I was, like, twelve. Since I've been a person, it's just been drifting.
49: Was your last kiss a mistake?
Yup.
50: Why aren’t you pursuing the person you like?
I don't like anyone right now.
51: Has the last person you kissed ever seen you cry?
Yes.
52: Do you still talk with the person you LAST kissed?
Frequently.
53: What was the last thing you ate?
Kettle corn.
54: Did you get any compliments today?
Yes, someone at church complimented my voice...and while that certainly isn't the point of worship team, it made me happy, because I got stuck on the top soprano part today even though I usually sing mezzo or even tenor, and I'm self-conscious about my head voice
55: Where are you going on your next vacation?
To work!
56: Do you own anything from other countries?
A few things - my ring from Ireland, a prayer shawl from Israel from the BBF, a change pouch from Italy from my roomie.
57: Are most of your friend guys or girls?
Generally mostly guys, though I've been evening it out more lately.
58: Where have you lived most of your life?
Louisville, KY.
59: When was the last time you took a long drive?
Um...I drove to Louisville and back in one night a little over a week ago. Other than that, it was the beach, which was nine months ago.
60: Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
Yes, but we were in elementary or middle school and did hugs, which was then downgraded to handshakes.
61: Have you ever TPd someone’s house?
No, but I have Saran wrapped an SUV.
62: Who do you text the most?
The BBF and Jessica...who should really also have an acronym. Hereafter let Jess be known as the GBF, the Girl Best Friend.
63: What was the last movie you saw?
The Vow. It was atrocious.
64: What’s preventing your current boyfriend/girlfriend from going back to their ex?
Well, he's imaginary, you see.
65: How many boyfriends/girlfriends did you have in 2010?
None.
66: Is the last person you kissed younger than you?
Nope.
67: Do you curse around your parents?
Only if I'm really incensed, and usually just on their behalf.
68: Are you happy with where you live?
For the most part. I'm constantly worried it's going to fall down around me, and I need to finish unpacking, but it's charming.
69: Do you collect anything?
Not really. Library fines.
70: What’s your favourite colour?
Hot pink. I also love yellow, but my mother makes sure I know I can't wear it.
71: Does the last song you listened to remind you of anyone?
Well, it's on a mix I'm currently burning for someone, so yes.
72: Has anyone ever cheated on you?
No.
73: What are your plans for tomorrow?
Work! And then some unpacking and cooking.
74: Do you have siblings over the age of twenty-one?
Nope.
75: Does your last ex have a job?
Doesn't exist, but the last person in whom I was interested does, yes.
76: What would you do if you found out your most recent ex was in a relationship?
Haven't got one, but the last person in whom I was interested is, and I'm thrilled about it; they're fantastic together.
77: Where is your cellphone?
On the couch beside me.
78: What colour is your cellphone?
Black.
79: What did you dream of last night?
I have no idea; I rarely remember my dreams.
80: Are you atheist?
Nope.
81: Will you change your name when you get married?
Yes - both of them, actually, as I go by something different than my first name and don't want to deal with changing it twice.
82: Are you ready for autumn weather?
Yes, I love the fall.
83: Have you had any big storms recently?
Just lots of rain.
84: What kind of bottoms are you wearing?
Pajama booty shorts. We don't have a/c.