COME ON!

[emilyism]

I wasn't slighted about being the photographer. I'm hounoured that you thought so highly of my skills - or at least that's what I assumed. I am slighted about being asked to be the photographer becuase it was assumed that I wouldn't want to dress up and be feminne. Honestly, all of you girls have known me since high school, seen me often enought

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[jupiterbfpoe]

It's really disappointing when people make assumptions about your feelings and desires rather than just asking you. I would expect that they thought they were doing the right thing, but they assumed your preference. And you know what happens when you assume? You make an ASS of U and ME. (with the U being them and the ME being you in this case)

-Good Day

[I have made a habit of reading the LJ most recent posts (http://www.livejournal.com/stats/latest.bml) and replying when inspired. You have just become a victim of my inspiration. A reply is not required]

[emilyism]

you're one hell of a brave soul to read those. I flipped through a few, out of curiosity, and about gave myself a concussion with *facepalm* ...

Word. take care.

[surgicaladdict]

:( people suck

[surgicaladdict]

Is this the wedding where the girls took over for the bride going out of the country? I still say I'd rather plan my own, but then again, I'm persnickety.

AND, you look good in a dress and all dressed up :D Like a sexy ninja ^_~ Which you also look like in your black running clothes :D

[emilyism]

yep, that's the one. its the bride throwing a fit at me becuase mostly I'll be "out of town" for "training".... hand to God, she informed me that "you will have four months of training, but I will only have one wedding night"... WHAT? Like I'm making up the fact that I may be at training during that time. And then! Here's the pretty bit, they're already married, the whole wedding ordeal is just a formality at this point...and they put it on a weeknight, not a weekend night that would be easier to get to - but that doesn't matter becuase I'm digging up reasons to not show up becuase I appearently don't want to wear a dress. FTW?

[surgicaladdict]

LOL. Geeze, this one's brilliant. You should put that up in the dumbest quotes EVER. So...I can understand wanting a cerempony for family and friends, considering if Taha and I get married there would have to be several ceremony type things. But she should still understand that while she's throwing a temper tantrum and OTHER people are planning her wedding, that you actually have a life. A Master's degree to complete, Academy to prepare for, and a real career to start. She should quit bitching and be grateful that through her bitchiness, you're still her friend.

[anonymous]

yeah, what's extra awsome here, its MY fault that this is going on. I didn't show enough greatfulness about this whole situation...so now I'm in the shit seat. comeon. I was also informed that this is too important an evening and it should recieve more importance on my priorities than she feels I'm giving it....

I told my man that if we ever bother to get married, the moment I start talking crazy like this - or remotely near it - he should call the wedding off. There's no reason for this craziness. honestly.