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[eminemandy]

So my brother just left for the airport, and he asked me not to come. I hate my brother, and I don't mean that like "oh my brother is so annoying." I really, seriously hate him. Why? Because he is the most selfish person I know. He thinks he's hot shit. Everything he says is completely sarcastic and cynical. I appreciate saracasm, but I

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[quesohelado]

I know exactly what you mean. however much i complain about my brother or parents, anyone says anything bad about them and i'm very quick to be on guard for them. it's weird... i hope things do get better for you and your bro, though. that sucks that everything doesn't work out the way it seems like it should. :(

[aussie_lover]

ok, so this sounds like the total cliche, and i don't mean it to, but...did you ever think about talking to him about it? i know my bro and i were the same way. but now that he's starting high school, i sat him down and had i nice little chat. maybe he matured cuz he's going to high school, or maybe it was the talk, but something worked. he's not a total jerk to me, and in some things we've learned to band together. it's just a suggestion. take it at your own risk! lol.

[eminemandy]

I think it would be a great idea. There's only one thing. We're both too stubborn for that. I come from a family of stubborn people. Seriously, like my mom and my cousin didn't talk for two years because of something really stupid. Not that my bro and i don't talk to eachother. It's just we're both too stubborn to admit when we're wrong. See my dad and my mom are both way too proud to admit when they're wrong, and so my brother and I inherited that trait doubly.

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[singer_of_drama]

sometimes people have bigger issues to work out...and they take it out on u, and im sorry girl cuz thats really not your fault...and it does affect you so much...especially if hes at a stage where hes trying to figure things out for himself...he is bound to make mistakes...and alot of them are bound to affect you as u are his family and because he needs parents..he cant necessarily take them out on them...and ur a sybling so i suppose its easier..its not right..and its not fair...i still have a brother that i really dont talk to and hes coming into town tomorrow...but the thing is you are an awesome person..and while you deserve better from your brother..i suppose all you can do is accept the fact that he has some growing up to do..and untill then....while things SHOULD be better...you cant expect too much because he needs to figure it for himeself and learn not to take it out on u. I love you dear! good luck!

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[eminemandy]

Thank you Clare! That makes a lot of sense. Good luck with your brother, too. You are a good friend.

-Mandy