I feel sick again. Thank God I don't start school for another three weeks. It would really suck to start college like this. It wouldn't be bad if I weren't so damn dizzy
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my philosophy: we're going to end up somewhere in life, it's up to us how we get there. like the old proverb: it's not the destination that matters, it's how you get there...
not specifically 'predicted,' but suggested. I belive that whateve higher power there is had a plan in creating each one of us. whether we fulfil our purpose when we are young or if it takes us to our dying day, i believe we all fulfil our purpose here. still, the way we do it and the way in which we live our lives is he more important piece of the puzzle. that's just my philosophy, though. to each her/his own.
as for the relationship thing, i don't know about the control thing. i mean, seeing one of my friends have her boyfriend so completely whipped proves to me that control is not good. yes, some people need to "be controlled", but i think the other partner in the relationship should teach them how to be independednt and have less need to be controlled that actually control them. does that make any sense?
as for the marrying part, i haven't heard that one. i heard you turn into your parents when you have your own kids, but not marry them. but one thing i've learned is watch how a guy treats his mom, cuz that's a dead sign on his attitude toward women and how he'll treat you. (hint for all you guys out there!)
Yeah, that makes sense. But what I meant is that some people want or like to have someone else take charge. I guess control has a bad connotation.
Geez, I hope I don't turn into my parents, at least for my kids sake. That's interesting about how a guy treats his mom. My exboyfriend treated his mom like crap. And that's all I'm going to say - the rest is implied. Anyway, that's really interesting, I'll pay attention to that.
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as for the relationship thing, i don't know about the control thing. i mean, seeing one of my friends have her boyfriend so completely whipped proves to me that control is not good. yes, some people need to "be controlled", but i think the other partner in the relationship should teach them how to be independednt and have less need to be controlled that actually control them. does that make any sense?
as for the marrying part, i haven't heard that one. i heard you turn into your parents when you have your own kids, but not marry them. but one thing i've learned is watch how a guy treats his mom, cuz that's a dead sign on his attitude toward women and how he'll treat you. (hint for all you guys out there!)
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Geez, I hope I don't turn into my parents, at least for my kids sake. That's interesting about how a guy treats his mom. My exboyfriend treated his mom like crap. And that's all I'm going to say - the rest is implied. Anyway, that's really interesting, I'll pay attention to that.
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hehe. it's a good tip that someone told me once. so far, it's worked!
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