Comments | emma_is_a_thief: He's Just Not That Into You.... Wrong???

emma_is_a_thief

He's Just Not That Into You.... Wrong???

Jun 29, 2005 15:25

So I have been talking about this book, HJNTIY for a week or two now, and a friend of mine messages me today, telling me to go to this website, http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_250/279_relationship_expert.html , and read the article, tell him ( Read more... )

teddy, hjntiy

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stevay20 June 30 2005, 11:03:54 UTC

Unfortunately, the popularity of a book does not speak to it's contents. I'm not attacking the book, but lets face it a lot of book sell well that are crap. ex:Slander by anne colter.

My other comment is, I think the reason men are "HJNTIY" is because of your personality. You're a good friend sweetheart, but the proposition of spending the rest of my life waking p to you is scary. Honestly, you are in many ways childish. I think all your kids rubbed off on you a little too much. It was cute in high school, but now it turns me off.

jevousaimez June 30 2005, 22:40:43 UTC

what the book is setting is a guidline for what we want when we are looking for a relationship...not the one to get married to... the point is when to tell when a guy cares about u verses just wanting a piece...or a fulfillment of lonliness..she in no way means that she is lookin for the husband figure in her life... just she's done having her time wasted by boys who dont treat her the way she deserves to be treated steve.. *kisses*

stevay20 July 1 2005, 00:22:23 UTC

I am saying that she won't find a "real man" if she acts like a girl. Only a women can see a mans intentions. It's not something a book can teach...

Stop looking, that's my advice. It seems like that is what you've done anyway. If any part of you is looking though, you'll only find trouble. You'll know when you've found him, just don't rush anything. And, lets face it, everyone likes to be called. Everyone has an ego...

emma_is_a_thief August 3 2006, 13:32:56 UTC

In following the HJNTIY theory, I now have a wonderful boyfriend whom I absolutely love who IS that into me. We have been dating for 10 months now, and living together for 7 months. He loves me for me, "childishness" and all. Actually, he thinks that the OCCASSIONAL times I can act like a child, (ex. getting super excited about Renaissance Fair, where I'm taking him for his birthday) is cute and one more thing to love about me. He loves me for me.

I quit pushing myself on people, I made my interest known, and look how wonderfully it worked out.