I would break off otherwise good relationships on the basis I would eventually hurt them. It never made sense to anyone else but me and usually caused more problems than it solved. Now I just get bored very quickly; as such, I've refrained from dating until someone truly awesome comes in and sweeps me off my feet. Not gonna happen, of course. I'm actually happier single. :3
I think that's my main fear: hurting them. In fact, I think I cried because he looked and sounded so hurt... And now, when I start to get close to someone, I tend to be like, "Well, I can't see myself with them for very long. And then I'd have to hurt another guy..." So I guess I'm waiting for someone truly awesome to sweep me off my feet, as well. Someone that will feel worth staying with even through pain, like me hurting them.
Plus, being single means freely gazing at eye candy. :P
I think it's more the fact I don't want to deal with people for at least ten years. I wasted my 20s going crazy over guys/people; now that I'm entering my 30s I want to have some Me Decade time. I'm certainly the happiest I've been in many years; must be doing something right. :3
Sorry to hear that. Being really close to someone is unequaled in it's ability to create both great happiness and great stress. Each of us can only do what feels right, eh?
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I'm sorry that break up affected you so badly. :(
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And, yeah, I agree, Spike and Buffy ftw! (In case you, y'know, totally didn't notice)
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Plus, being single means freely gazing at eye candy. :P
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I think it's more the fact I don't want to deal with people for at least ten years. I wasted my 20s going crazy over guys/people; now that I'm entering my 30s I want to have some Me Decade time. I'm certainly the happiest I've been in many years; must be doing something right. :3
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