Aww, thanks so much for the kind words - it means a lot from a fellow pet owner. :) The pics are funny, they give off a lapdog image (that's always how the groomers styled her) but it couldn't be further from the truth... she was really a ruffty-tuffty little terrier, always scouting out a scent and escaping to a nearby field, growling away and trying to communicate with us.
When we got her we took a six hour drive to get to the breeder's, and I held her as a tiny puppy all the way back so I became her 'mother' figure, her go-to for comfort. She used to climb onto my knee every morning before I went to school. I never had the heart to move her! She was super special.
I am glad you've decided to celebrate her life, but in case you feel the need to cry or feel sad, remember those are also normal and expected at this time.
I hope you feel better soon, and you're right, her memories will be forever with you. That's what happened with my first dog, and although I now have another one whom I love just as much, Tatcher's memories will always be with me.
Thanks so much hun, that really means a lot to me. I've definitely had a fair few sobbing moments today, the slightest thing can set me off! :S I think time's the healer, and remembering funny stories about her are really helping.
It's also reassuring to hear from someone who's been through the same - I think first dogs will always be special, it's inevitable. Having another proves just how unique they are, their personalities will always be different but just as rewarding. And Tatcher's such a lovely name! :) Thanks again. ♥
You're so right - I almost think that the limited time that they're with us means they cram even more affection and joy in while they can! The unconditional thing is hugely special too; fellow humans, even our nearest and dearest, have the capability to judge, but no matter what you do, say or how you look your pet will shower you with as much adoration as they can.
She was indeed a bright little thing, highly intelligent, very manipulative too and as I said to Strange, a lot more adventurous and boisterous than she seems. Very close on the Westie front - she was a Cairn Terrier, I think they're really similar in personality. Same breed as Toto in Wizard of Oz, her dad looked just like him in fact and was charcoal grey in colour. They come in blonde like Jodes and a reddish colour too.
I'm so sorry about your sweet little dog. I had to have my Daisy put down last September and I know how hard it is. Daisy was with me for 17 years, through thick and thin. She was the one constant in my life for a very long time. Celebrating her life is the right way to go about it. I try to remember all the hairy hugs and sloppy kisses, and the ridiculous messes she would always get into. Dogs bring so much joy in to our lives, but they aren't with us nearly long enough.
Ohhh, I'm so sorry to hear that you went through the same. What kind of dog was Daisy? It's the hardest thing in the world when they decide it's time to go isn't it, my dad was on his own when it happened as Mum was staying with me here in the UK so the poor guy kept it to himself so as not to worry us, but he made sure he held onto her and talked to her the whole time so I'm glad she wasn't alone.
They are such a constant aren't they? When I think of all the changes that happened in those sixteen years - I went to high school, college, university, moved out, friends and boyfriends came and went but she was always there with her wagging tail. She had this one little habit which I adored, if I was working on the computer or something she'd sit and look at me, then she'd put her little paws up on my knee to be on my level, take one paw and tap my arm with it so that I'd give her attention. It was so almost-human it always made me laugh.
Thanks so much, it means a lot to hear from a fellow dog lover :)
Daisy was a mutt, an adorable hairy mutt. She looked a bit like a golden retriever, but in miniature size. Through two marriages, moving house at least half a dozen times and many friends coming and going, she was the one who was ALWAYS there when I came home from work (or whatever), always ready with a hug (if you were sitting down she would put her front legs over your shoulders and snuffle your ear), and her tail wagging like mad. I also have 2 cats, and I adore them (and am ever so grateful that I have them now that I don't have Daisy anymore), but cats just dont have as much personality as a dog. Dogs seem to think they are people too.
Awww - Daisy sounds like she was an incredible dog. I love the idea of a mini golden retriever-esque mutt, and from what you say she was fabulously friendly and loyal as well as gorgeous no doubt. Jodie was very similar, and as much as she was a loyal dog she loved people, especially new ones (and particularly males for some reason, the little strumpet!) and was at her happiest when the living room was full. Playing was her favourite pastime, and she continued to do so right up until she lost her sight, even when her little legs weren't as strong she'd still want to play tug of war or fetch.
When I was a hormonal teenager she always weirdly knew when I was crying and did that adorable dog-hug thing you describe - she was a dab hand at it just like Daisy! :D
I love the cat vs. dog debate, it always reminds me of Robert DeNiro in Meet the Parents talking about how you have to 'earn' a cat's trust and affection. It's funny you should mention you have two cats, my other half's parents recently acquired the most beautiful little cat who
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From her pictures, she seems like a very special little doggie. May she rest in peace.
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When we got her we took a six hour drive to get to the breeder's, and I held her as a tiny puppy all the way back so I became her 'mother' figure, her go-to for comfort. She used to climb onto my knee every morning before I went to school. I never had the heart to move her! She was super special.
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I am glad you've decided to celebrate her life, but in case you feel the need to cry or feel sad, remember those are also normal and expected at this time.
I hope you feel better soon, and you're right, her memories will be forever with you. That's what happened with my first dog, and although I now have another one whom I love just as much, Tatcher's memories will always be with me.
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It's also reassuring to hear from someone who's been through the same - I think first dogs will always be special, it's inevitable. Having another proves just how unique they are, their personalities will always be different but just as rewarding. And Tatcher's such a lovely name! :) Thanks again. ♥
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She was indeed a bright little thing, highly intelligent, very manipulative too and as I said to Strange, a lot more adventurous and boisterous than she seems. Very close on the Westie front - she was a Cairn Terrier, I think they're really similar in personality. Same breed as Toto in Wizard of Oz, her dad looked just like him in fact and was charcoal grey in colour. They come in blonde like Jodes and a reddish colour too.
Huge thanks, the kind words mean so much :)
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(Sends many virtual hugs!)
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They are such a constant aren't they? When I think of all the changes that happened in those sixteen years - I went to high school, college, university, moved out, friends and boyfriends came and went but she was always there with her wagging tail. She had this one little habit which I adored, if I was working on the computer or something she'd sit and look at me, then she'd put her little paws up on my knee to be on my level, take one paw and tap my arm with it so that I'd give her attention. It was so almost-human it always made me laugh.
Thanks so much, it means a lot to hear from a fellow dog lover :)
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When I was a hormonal teenager she always weirdly knew when I was crying and did that adorable dog-hug thing you describe - she was a dab hand at it just like Daisy! :D
I love the cat vs. dog debate, it always reminds me of Robert DeNiro in Meet the Parents talking about how you have to 'earn' a cat's trust and affection. It's funny you should mention you have two cats, my other half's parents recently acquired the most beautiful little cat who ( ... )
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