Gracie Bryner

[emminova]

My cat passed away tonight. Her name was Gracie. She lived to be 14 years old, and was the first pet I've ever had. She was a gray tabbie with stripes on her back and spots on her belly. I think every pet has something unique about them. Gracie had several things. We would have conversations. "Meow?" I'd say. "Meow meow, "she'd reply. Her "meows"

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[paradisia]

*hugs* I lost my 14 year old kitty a couple years ago, and I know exactly how it feels. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much Gracie will be missed. I can't imagine having something like that happen in addition to the huge loss that you've already suffered this past year. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please feel free to IM me if you just need someone to talk to. (My screen name is KatzeMusik.)

[vailance]

No one makes it through life alive, but look what what has been accomplished. Gracie lived a very distinct life, she became a best friend to you, learned to talk to you and interact with you, enjoyed your piano. She saw you through the loss of a parent, and has been there for you when you came back from college. She clearly appreciated what you did for her, and gave you a goodbye. Enjoy these memories, relive them over and over. Even in her last moments she was your friend. Take comfort in her memories as you did her in life.

This year is teaching you how to survive, how to make your own joy and peace in this darkness. I have faith in your sunny disposition.

[pinkpolopony]

I second Meena's thoughts.

We'd had Penny, our dog, since I was 4. She died three years ago. The feeling is indescribable, because not only have you lost a pet, but you truly have lost a family member. In some ways, it's even harder than losing a person because pets cannot speak, so you have these little intricacies and personalities all figured out, an unspoken love and bond.

This year has been hard on you, and I hope it is the hardest you ever have, you shouldn't have to go through any more. Just look forward to things getting better and creating new memories with those who are still here with you.

[michael_77]

You can make it through anything buddy, I know.

My father was murdered, his mom(my last grandparent)and his sister(my aunt, of course) all died within three months after my dad.

I learned to never take anything or anyone for granted and to take time to notice a newborn or any new life, because that always gives me hope.

Hang in there, and embrace the sadness. Then, when you have felt the hurt and loss, let it go and open yourself to the life around you.

[eyu]

I'm sorry, Emmy.

I guess there's not a whole lot else to say.

with care,
tom

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