And all the "Best Deceptions" and "Clever Cover Story" awards will go to you.

[emo_since_birth]

What do you do if you think your girlfriend has cheated on you? Do you confront her? I mean if you have no real evidence but just...that feeling....do you risk everything? There have been tell tale signs, and as far as REAL evidence goes there have been some things that i shouldnt have seen...

The problem is I dont even know what I would do if its

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[thrives]

Cheating, if it happens once (or even twice) and isn't extremely severe, is forgivable, I think. It's hard to get over the fact that someone hurt you in that way, but if your feelings are strong enough and you believe in them enough, you can forgive them.

The problem is that if you don't see the person as intrinsically worthy of your trust, because then you'll be suspicious forever- and if they're really not worthy of your trust, then that suspicion is justified; however, it'll ruin things.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

[julieana]

Regardless of whether or not she is cheating on you, the real problem (or what I think from this entry) is that there is an extreme lack of trust in the relationship. Jealousy seems to be taking over too. You can be head over heels in love with a person, but if you don't trust the person and vice versa, the relationship can never progress.

I hope everything works out for the best :)