if you can't say anything nice....

[emojacie]

To those of you who continue to wish that my life is a painful mess:

Two words

Fuck off.

Oh yeah, and because I'm so sick of you sticking your self-righteous Karma inducing finger in my face, this journal is now friends only.

Comments

[neffalant]

I love you Jacie...:-D I'm going to miss you and Morgan.......:-(

[emojacie]

awe neffa, we're gonna miss you too!

You gotta come visit us in arizona. It's pretty darn cool. =)

[dreamsoft]

So again, thanks much for the friends only.

You know... maybe if you had ever once simply been willing to admit that "hey, I did something bad here"... I would have never said anything to you again. But you didn't. You constantly tried to act as if what you did was no big deal.

And then you whine about "what if someone does something like this to me"...

Perhaps you should explain the situation to your journal readers (don't worry, I won't force you to grow up by stating it myself), and see what they think. I noticed you never said anything about the situation since saying "they approved me". Perhaps because, inside, you know what you did was not an ok thing. And yeah, it's no fun admitting to yourself when you fuck up... but the day you start taking ownership for your mistakes is the you will actually be on the path to maturity.

Until then... keep hiding, but you'll find that is not the most fulfilling way to live.

[dreamsoft]

oh and as far as "
To those of you who continue to wish that my life is a painful mess" goes... I wish you no malevolance... I simply find it sad that you're on the path you're on. And annoying that your "painful mess" had to encroach upon my life.

You'll find, generally, people have more nice things to say to you when you have actions and thoughts that deserve such treatment.

[neffalant]

You know the whole reason she wrote that is so people wouldn’t do what you just did. If she doesn't want to explain herself then leave it at that. She doesn't need to explain herself. Since she wrote that journal entry because of comments like that, you know...it would probably be better to keep things like that to yourself and not upset her even more. JEEZ! Maybe, you need to grow up and learn to keep unnecessary comments to yourself. I, personally, think that Jacie is EXTREMELY mature for her age and she knows what she wants to do in her life. If you don't agree with it, then leave her alone and let her live her life how she wants to.

[dreamsoft]

Well you see, when someone writes a message stated as being to me, and in said message says "fuck off". I'm sorry, I don't see that as anything but aggression.

I returned, not with aggression, but with my honest opinion. Which I've every right to give.

I'm sure Jacie is mature in a myriad of ways, however, as I am the recipient of her callous actions, it is quite clear to me that she has a bit more growing up to do...

[emojacie]

Thank you Neffa. I appreciate it.

[dreamsoft]

You can thank gimpy989 for commenting to me, thereby bringing me here to respond, for me seeing this little comment of yours. And since you have commented on this subject, yet not responded to any of the valid concerns I brought up... I ask why?

No one is perfect... you fucked up... ok. Why is it so hard to admit to yourself or the people you fucked over that oops, you done wrong? I don't expect you to admit it to me, as you feel I'm attacking you, but do yourself a favor, and at least admit it to yourself.

[gimpy989]

Hi there!

I'm Jacie's boyfriend!

Yep. That's right. Unlike certain couples who don't talk to each other and in which the female doesn't share any letters of apology she might have received in her e-mail with the male (I hope that made sense), we communicate!

She tells me stuff!

Now isn't that cool.

So I guess I'm not one of those people who you talk about here:

"I also find it funny when people who have no idea what is going on in a situation try to act like they do."

She told me what is going on in this particular situation.

That's right, I know what I'm talking about, and I am no more one-sided than you are.

Oh, and furthermore, you have no right to assume that it's you to whom she addressed the main body of her "friends only" post.

I guess your girlfriend is into the whole egotistical thing. She should be proud.

[dreamsoft]

Oh hey! You're the guy she was going on about most likely breaking up with around the time she wronged us... hey, good to hear you guys are together, you truly deserve each other. =)

Clearly you don't know what's going on... or you'd know that post was for me. When I talk of karma and clearly hit jacie's button with my original comment, and she comes back and talks of "karma pointing finger"... well, I'm at the very least one of those people, for she has quoted me. I never said I was the only one, in fact, I'm sure I'm not.

If your and Jacie's reactions to myself are any indication of how you act around others, I'm sure that post was meant for a slew of individuals - individuals of which I am one of.

So if you didn't know that post was for me (and possibly others, that's not being debated), sounds like you and your lovergirl don't communicate all that much after all.

Either that or you do communicate and you've just been spewing hot air this whole time. =)

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