i hate this

[enderfem]

This is my only safe space, really

Comments

[rosefox]

Oh oh oh no that is so awful. I'm so sorry. What an absolutely rotten way for him to treat you. You deserve so much better. You didn't make any mistakes--you made the best decisions for yourself that you could with the information you had. The blame is squarely on him for misleading you.

I would love to connect you with my Seattle friends, all of whom are absolutely the sort to help a stranger without thinking twice--they can help you move your stuff or find a therapist or a doctor or whatever you need. I can't promise job offers, but kindness and support, yes, absolutely. Glad to do anything else I can do from here.

I promise you are not trapped, and you will find a way out.

[australian_joe]

Thank you for saying all these things.

[rosefox]

Well, of course! I wish I could do more.

[australian_joe]

I'm not on good enough terms with anyone even vaguely in the area so you're doing a great deal!

[ckd]

I hear you. *hugs*

As for the rest, I don't want to overpromise but I'm sure there's something I can do to help out. Let's talk.

[fibro_witch]

Wish I was close enough to rush to your side. There must be people near you who can help? All I can send is love, real love.

[australian_joe]

Sending love in this media also. You are not trapped. It is a goddam tragic fuckup on his part - but not on yours.

[lsmsrbls]

I'm so sorry.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do.