Drama Drama Drama I Hate Fucking DRAMA!
so, yesterday i had the day off work. i got up early, did my laundry, took a shower, got dressed, went to work and got my paycheck, cashed it, did some shopping and came home. when i got home i made lunch and took a nap. i got up again and took another shower and started talking to my mom online. she asked me no less than 3 times to go back to DE. all in all it had been a pretty good day. but come about 5 or 6pm i'm talking to my mom, and my aunt is watching the news and she yells out to me that someone had been shot at my walmart. at first i didn't believe her...cuz you never want to believe things like that happen, ya know? so i went into the other room to watch the news cast about it...and all they said was that one person was stabbed and was in the hospital, and another was shot and killed. so i started freaking out, and worrying about all my friends that were at work..hoping that they were all okay or whatnot. so i called victoria, who i work with, to see if she's okay, and see if everyone else is okay. i talked to her, and she told me what the police were telling them, and that she was okay and she was worrying about me when they started to evacuate the building.
so, what happened was that a lady who works in the deli, Joyce, her exhusband, whom she had a restraining order against came in and they started arguing. he hopped over the deli counter and started stabbing her. a reserve officer that happened to be there jumped over the counter as well, and he told the guy to stop, and the guy ignored him, so the officer pulled out his gun and shot the guy 3 times. they closed the store until 7 or 8 this morning.
so, my friend from work, that i'm all into, but he has a gf...he has a party at his place every thursday night, cuz he's off on fridays; yesterday was no exception. i was watching a movie when holly (another coworker) called me, telling me they were going to party and asking if i wanted to partake in the festivities. of course i wanted to partake...who wouldn't? so they came and picked me up and we went to his house. the party started out great...we were playing a game, everyone was getting intoxicated, we were jammin out to ICP, it was all very good times. then they brought out the paddle. now most of the females there have a fetish with ass smacking, and the guys don't mind indulging them...i'm not one of those chicks. i told the guys that i didn't want to be hit...and one of em hit me anyway...i got all pissed at him and told him not to do it again. then eli, another coworker, hit my ass with his belt. i told them that if anyone hits me again, he'll lose his fuckin balls, cuz i'm not into that kind of thing. eli apologized, because he didn't realize i wasn't one of the chicks that enjoyed the ass smacking. the other guy didn't. he hit me again...i told him to test me and see if i'm playin...he didn't bother me again that night.
then things go to shit. my friend's gf got all hysterical and was throwing a fit/tantrum in the parking lot of their apartment and in turn my friend did the same thing...he was doing his best to get her inside, but she insisted on making a scene. after the other chicks got her inside, my friend took off...to cool down. i went after him, because he was drunk, and i wasn't going to let him wander the streets of albuquerque while drunk. when i finally caught up with him, we talked about things that have been happening between us, he used my phone to call his gf, i calmed him down and we went back to his apartment. when we got back, i went outside with my friend nikki, and she explained to me what my friend's gf's problem was. she was drunk, and she's very honest when she's drunk, and she said that she could tell that i'm attracted to her bf, and that he's attracted to me, and she's all paranoid that something's going on between us. i don't remember how in depth i've been on here...about my friend and i, but i know now that i'm not going to be a threat to this girl when it comes to her man...he's off limits. so, i feel bad about all that going on...because if i hadn't have been there, it wouldn't have happened.
then, it's like 3am and nikki and i decide to walk down to walmart, to see if it's open yet. we tell my friend and eli what we're doing, and take off. get halfway there and my friend calls me...i answer, but get no response on the other end...he just hung up. when we got there, i got another call from him. i told him where we were and that we'd be heading back soon. we stopped to talk to one of the overnight managers, and she told us the story of what happened and that the guy with the gun was a reserve officer. so then we took off, back to my friend's apartment. we got within a minute from it, and we found eli, and they started talking and arguing, so i went ahead and finished the walk to my friend's place, alone. when i got there he was all pissed cuz he was worrying, and he doesn't like to be made to worry. then he told me that eli was pissed at nikki, cuz he thought that we left to go fuck or something...cuz nikki is very openly bi, and she'd been fondling my breasts all night (what are they there for, if not to fondle?) so, he was upset with her. my friend and i talked and made up our minds about what we need to do...the best for everyone in our situation, and we came to a conclusion. i can't really say that i was happy about the conclusion, but we'll see where ka takes us.
it is what it is, and what it is meant to be. ka is like a wheel, and it involves everyone, from the purpose to the random and we are helpless to change the outcome of everything that happens. if we were meant to be, ka will take us there.
If any of y'all read this entire thing you deserve so much respect, and i thank you for doing so...it helps to get all this off my chest or whatever...
so, what happened was that a lady who works in the deli, Joyce, her exhusband, whom she had a restraining order against came in and they started arguing. he hopped over the deli counter and started stabbing her. a reserve officer that happened to be there jumped over the counter as well, and he told the guy to stop, and the guy ignored him, so the officer pulled out his gun and shot the guy 3 times. they closed the store until 7 or 8 this morning.
so, my friend from work, that i'm all into, but he has a gf...he has a party at his place every thursday night, cuz he's off on fridays; yesterday was no exception. i was watching a movie when holly (another coworker) called me, telling me they were going to party and asking if i wanted to partake in the festivities. of course i wanted to partake...who wouldn't? so they came and picked me up and we went to his house. the party started out great...we were playing a game, everyone was getting intoxicated, we were jammin out to ICP, it was all very good times. then they brought out the paddle. now most of the females there have a fetish with ass smacking, and the guys don't mind indulging them...i'm not one of those chicks. i told the guys that i didn't want to be hit...and one of em hit me anyway...i got all pissed at him and told him not to do it again. then eli, another coworker, hit my ass with his belt. i told them that if anyone hits me again, he'll lose his fuckin balls, cuz i'm not into that kind of thing. eli apologized, because he didn't realize i wasn't one of the chicks that enjoyed the ass smacking. the other guy didn't. he hit me again...i told him to test me and see if i'm playin...he didn't bother me again that night.
then things go to shit. my friend's gf got all hysterical and was throwing a fit/tantrum in the parking lot of their apartment and in turn my friend did the same thing...he was doing his best to get her inside, but she insisted on making a scene. after the other chicks got her inside, my friend took off...to cool down. i went after him, because he was drunk, and i wasn't going to let him wander the streets of albuquerque while drunk. when i finally caught up with him, we talked about things that have been happening between us, he used my phone to call his gf, i calmed him down and we went back to his apartment. when we got back, i went outside with my friend nikki, and she explained to me what my friend's gf's problem was. she was drunk, and she's very honest when she's drunk, and she said that she could tell that i'm attracted to her bf, and that he's attracted to me, and she's all paranoid that something's going on between us. i don't remember how in depth i've been on here...about my friend and i, but i know now that i'm not going to be a threat to this girl when it comes to her man...he's off limits. so, i feel bad about all that going on...because if i hadn't have been there, it wouldn't have happened.
then, it's like 3am and nikki and i decide to walk down to walmart, to see if it's open yet. we tell my friend and eli what we're doing, and take off. get halfway there and my friend calls me...i answer, but get no response on the other end...he just hung up. when we got there, i got another call from him. i told him where we were and that we'd be heading back soon. we stopped to talk to one of the overnight managers, and she told us the story of what happened and that the guy with the gun was a reserve officer. so then we took off, back to my friend's apartment. we got within a minute from it, and we found eli, and they started talking and arguing, so i went ahead and finished the walk to my friend's place, alone. when i got there he was all pissed cuz he was worrying, and he doesn't like to be made to worry. then he told me that eli was pissed at nikki, cuz he thought that we left to go fuck or something...cuz nikki is very openly bi, and she'd been fondling my breasts all night (what are they there for, if not to fondle?) so, he was upset with her. my friend and i talked and made up our minds about what we need to do...the best for everyone in our situation, and we came to a conclusion. i can't really say that i was happy about the conclusion, but we'll see where ka takes us.
it is what it is, and what it is meant to be. ka is like a wheel, and it involves everyone, from the purpose to the random and we are helpless to change the outcome of everything that happens. if we were meant to be, ka will take us there.
If any of y'all read this entire thing you deserve so much respect, and i thank you for doing so...it helps to get all this off my chest or whatever...