Till Death do us part

[enraged_locust]

What is the point in getting married if your just going to get a divorce and do it again.

"Yeah, that one's pretty, but it's like my first time getting married so I want something nice and traditional, maybe I'll go for something like that next time"I have a problem with divorce. People treat it as a quick fix

Comments

[badpixie]

whats the point in getting married?
i don't see it.
people will only let you down in the first place.
why make a fake vow, that nearly no one truly keeps.

[enraged_locust]

thats the point, if you dont see the point and you dont think your gonna spend your entire life with that person and you can truly keep that vow, dont get married

[enraged_locust]

I'm not short sighted about marriage, the post isnt about marriage, its about divorice, I'm against divorce

[mattbremner13]

You're not even agianst divorce, you're against stupid women, and trust me, the world's full of them, if you find a way to cure that gimme a call. That's like saying religion is flawed because people hide behind it, people are flawed in general, get used to it.

Oh, and it's annulment.

[enraged_locust]

Yeah I guess your right, not necessarily stupid women, but stupid people who abuse divorce and sorry i can't spell

[mistresslolita]

the thing is kilt, sometimes, when people are young, and carefree, and less aware of themselves, people think theyre compatible. sometimes, people realize "oh yeah, maybe we're not meant to be" i dont see a problem with getting a divorce simply because two people are incompatible. people are allowed to make mistakes, its part of being human. its better to be happy than resentful

[enraged_locust]

you make a very good point lauren, in all honesty I am kind of hinting around a particular case which I don't really want to post on the internet for that persons sake.

It just pisses me off when people take marriage so lightly, when people just say oh well, there's always divorce and don't even try and work things out, like if you try and you still can't, then that's one thing, but if you don't even try you never know if it could have worked.

Notice too, my examples of reason for divorce aren't exactly really deep problems.

[mr_inglorious]

I can't really see myself being loyal to someone for my whole life. So, I would say, for the sake of not getting Divorced, I'll not try to get married....cause I'll just screw around on them.

Damn, I'm so weak when it comes to the flesh.

[baron_1_hornets]

Just a question... how exactly does one "do [marriage] right"?

I don't think anybody heads into marriage with the plan that they want to fuck things up and do them all over again, it just turns out that way due to circumstance. In your example of a person getting married a ridiculous number of times, maybe they should get the hint that marriage doesn't work for them and stop, but that doesn't make getting divorced and remarried a bad thing.

[enraged_locust]

well if you read the quote, some people do head into marriage with the intention of divorce apparently

[unoriginal_37]

but there's no point preaching to those people because they obviously are not concerned with love..

[enraged_locust]

who are you?