In case you were wondering why your ears were burning, me, the Von and assorted husbands were all extolling your virtues this weekend and how much we love you. Braindump upon us ANY TIME AT ALL. Probably it would be less confusing if you lived in the UK, I'm just guessing... (one of these days I will stop obnoxiously trying to make you emigrate. Today is not that day.)
I agree that making people deal is necessary. But it doesn't have to be A THING, you know? It can start easy with you commenting on the hot of a female in passing and wandering off like it's no big deal, because it isn't. Expect them to be okay with it all, the onus is on them to accept and not you to change. Because you are awesome just the way you are. <3
The day the emigration campaign stops is the day I know it's time to really start worrying. ♥
I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but yeah, I think something like what you're suggesting is a good idea. I'm going to have to start bringing it up, not necessarily in a grand gesture, but just small reminders that heterosexuality and I are not OTP. Deliberately sidestepping the subject is doing no one any good.
PS: You should be getting a box from me either today or tomorrow. Usual Christmas rules apply!
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I am also hear for any braindumping you need or want to do. <333
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Sexuality is HARD and so is family. Maybe if we just ignore them both, they'll all nicely resolve themselves? /0\
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I agree that making people deal is necessary. But it doesn't have to be A THING, you know? It can start easy with you commenting on the hot of a female in passing and wandering off like it's no big deal, because it isn't. Expect them to be okay with it all, the onus is on them to accept and not you to change. Because you are awesome just the way you are. <3
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I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but yeah, I think something like what you're suggesting is a good idea. I'm going to have to start bringing it up, not necessarily in a grand gesture, but just small reminders that heterosexuality and I are not OTP. Deliberately sidestepping the subject is doing no one any good.
PS: You should be getting a box from me either today or tomorrow. Usual Christmas rules apply!
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