well fuck it, this is a long comment_transmutation_October 15 2010, 15:51:59 UTC
There are going to be people in your life that you will always love. But loving is not being in love or being happy. That's the biggest problem I see in relationships. If you both are not happy, then ya gotta end it, as much as it hurts and sucks, cuz someone,someday will make them happy, and you.
Dude, after my last break up I was a mess for like 2 months. Granted he and I are suuuper good close friends now, it just sucked to not have him there all the time, the texts the calls the sleep overs. But I realized, things werent that great. It was a body next to me I wanted more then anything. And ya start to find friends who text all the time. Shit Ben and I gmail chat with our comp/phones just about everyday. It kills time, and you stay connected to your best friends.
I owe ya a beer sometime dude. or drink, whatevers clever. Anywho I'm still on LJ and I'm glad ya posted this.
Re: well fuck it, this is a long commententropyguitarOctober 16 2010, 09:08:29 UTC
Thanks for the kind words :)
I kind of hope we end up being good friends. Because this wasn't a BAD break-up, just ill-timed. But then, there is no RIGHT time to break up. I see no reason why we can't get there eventually. But right now, I think we both definitely need our space. I talked to her tonight for the first time since and I made the point very clear that I'm sticking with my decision. Of course, that didn't go over very well. This is just the beginning, so I'll see where life takes me.
Let me know if you're in Stockton sometime! Haha, it's boring out there :(
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Dude, after my last break up I was a mess for like 2 months. Granted he and I are suuuper good close friends now, it just sucked to not have him there all the time, the texts the calls the sleep overs. But I realized, things werent that great. It was a body next to me I wanted more then anything. And ya start to find friends who text all the time. Shit Ben and I gmail chat with our comp/phones just about everyday. It kills time, and you stay connected to your best friends.
I owe ya a beer sometime dude. or drink, whatevers clever. Anywho I'm still on LJ and I'm glad ya posted this.
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I kind of hope we end up being good friends. Because this wasn't a BAD break-up, just ill-timed. But then, there is no RIGHT time to break up. I see no reason why we can't get there eventually. But right now, I think we both definitely need our space. I talked to her tonight for the first time since and I made the point very clear that I'm sticking with my decision. Of course, that didn't go over very well. This is just the beginning, so I'll see where life takes me.
Let me know if you're in Stockton sometime! Haha, it's boring out there :(
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