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[envydia]

i'm supposed to be visiting a school tomorrow but i can't sleep. i have a headache and my wrist hurts too much and i deleted my plurk. i think i might set up a permanent anon post, i'd rather have people tell me anonymously than to my face what a bad friend i am, because i'd rather have them lie and pretend to stand me. it seems like attention

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[nrstar]

Awww, Kate! :( Yeah, we aren`t close.. But I think that you`re really not a bad friend. :) And I think that it`s a good thing to share your problems rather than bottling it all up `cause it won`t solve anything. :)

I hope that you`ll feel better! ♥ :D

[ephemery]

It's okay. Everyone has their pains and sadnesses.

[meepalicious]

I'm not going anon, and I'm not going to tell you that you suck, 'cause you don't. You're smart and your funny and you're a good ficcer and iconer. I worry sometimes 'cause you're so hard on yourself, but you're not a bad person.

[shattered_prose]

Me never believe in Anons :O You don't suck at all ... if anything, I suck worse than you so don't get too worked up okie? Everyone here thinks you're awesome, as do i! :D

[vehemence]

:( This post attracted me out of my hermit cave to comment cause I feel like I've prob felt similarly at some point. When you've got self-loathing of course you won't be able to see a reason for anyone else to like you.

bb, there's no shame in needing to feel like you're not alone, that you're a part of someone else's world.

I've also been sitting here trying to define 'bad friend'.. like, what constitutes a "bad friend"? It seems to me like that is just an oxymoron. Friend = good. Aint no such thing as a bad friend. Maybe you feel like you're not doing enough for others, but really, just caring is enough.