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[eralin]

 well things have not been very happy between my mom, dad and me for the past couple weeks. almost a month now. because of the money problem that my parents are having they thought that i was going to go and get a job and help pay for their bills. no i was not going to do that. yes, if i had to i would pay rent but i wasnt going to pay their bills

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[loveandcherish]

find a job, it'll be hard, but you can do it and it'll get your mom off your back

and DONT move in with Matt, you can stay there all you want, but you will be in a terrible position if you are living with him and the relationship breaks off. exspecially if your parents are mad and don't let you move back in.

[rainychan]

Yeeah, moving in with Matt would be a really bad idea.

[dreamhunterfox]

Hate to be a naysayer, but unless you have a job and have been together for over a year, I wouldn't move. Having somebody else supporting you financially gives them a lot of power over you. Heck, I didn't move in with three of my trusted friends for just that reason- I didn't want to be living on their charity. Your arm should be out of the sling soonish, no? Maybe then you can get a desk job that won't fuck up your shoulder.

[eralin]

i've been out of my sling for a week now. i've been going to pt for strengthening of my shoulder now. and im applying for a desk job today actually so that i can have an income again.