There are things I should be doing.... and tcby
but I'm at home... undecided about any direction I want to take. I would really love some tcby, white chocolate mouse/chocolate mix with brownie bits. But I don't feel like getting dressed to any degree to go and get it
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marriage and a family is my dream as a future
and i am EXTREMELY picky.
i can't count how many times one of my dude friends is like
"yeah this is so and so"
"so and so thinks youre cute, why dont you talk to him?"
do you hate that as much as i do? it makes my stomach turn.. i hate being forced... the dude has to be a certain person with a certain charm towards me and a certain personality... something that pulls me to them...
and people NEVER understand me when i say that....
it's kinda like one of those trailer park moments on delivery
"hey baby you're hot, can i get your number? that's ok.. just keep the CHANGE."
EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
as much as it sucks i have to tell myself that daily.
i've talked to much, lol.
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But you are right... everything happens for a reason. *grumbles a little bit*
And yeah... it's so awkward for me... cause I am really weird about even the attention I get from guys. If I don't want attention like that from a guy, I'll be so... straightforward and standoffish. If I like the guy as a friend then I deflect... but it is rather awkward unless I have at least some intrigue towards them - which has not happened so far.
I'm wondering when it will! =(
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lol.
I wonder the same thing myself...
but that's all i really can do, isn't it?
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Love is a waiting game. I agree. Just waiting for that perfect person to fall into your life. One day your walking down the beach and your soul mate drops from the sky, you hit it off, get married, have 2 kids, and buy a house. It can be a painful and slow moving process, but it can be worth it.
But in the other point of view ... In your life, all you have is time. Live, eat, breath, and eventually death. Time is all you have.
So ... you could spend what little time you have here on earth just patiently waiting. Or ... spend it having fun. Not necessarily sleeping around or whatever you do to have fun. But get out there, talk to people, have an adventure with (good) strangers. Meet someone cool that you enjoy spending time with. And do just that.
Have fun, don't stress about the future, i.e. Marriage, Kids, House, Mortgage ... Just enjoy your present company and surround yourself with people who make you smile.
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Obviously the toothless guy in the trailor park is not what your looking for. Im just simply trying to say that find someone you just enjoy hanging out with. . .so what if they have no car, or, they still live with their parents. There is almost always going to be a downside to somebody, but if they make you more happy, then what do you have to lose?
What if someones "soulmate" has to be molded. Maybe through your hands, maybe through someone elses? Maybe they needed someone like you as their wake up call to something bigger?
I guess what im getting at is that you have to go out there, try things, if they seem the least bit interesting to you, and they think the world of you. Why not spend some time with them?
All you have to lose is time.
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i do go out there, and i do look, and i do try things.
but not any one person intrigues me enough to make me give them the time of day.
when a person does, i take note of it, and them.
it's how i've always been.
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I respect your points of view and found this discussion to be very informative.
We have some similiar views, but are also diffrent. Our pasts play a large roll in that and our current situation also plays in.
13 comment FTW!!1
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and just because 13 is the unluckiest number ever, and i have a thing against odd numbers..
here's #14!
mwahahahah
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