Well Frankie, I think it'd be sad if you didn't reach the realization that there's more to life than going out and getting trashed every week. Now, I know that my friends and I do (or try to) that every week, but it's only because they're still young and 21 and at some point the novelty will definitely wear off and we'll crave more substantial activities. And I am fully aware that a day will come (probably 2 more years) when I get sick of the scene and want to settle down and persue other means of entertainment. It's a sign of maturity. Of course, until I reach that point I'm going to live it up like there's no tomorrow.
The thing I've noticed is once someone's a club friend, it's really really hard to be friends with them outside that setting. When the club and getting drunk are the only two things you have in common, it's really hard to build a solid friendship. But start with the few people you actually do things with outside the club, and build from there. Good luck.
I love you Frank. come here and live with me! I don't have time or energy to go out drinking. We'll stay home, cook dinner, watch buffy and random movies, go shopping, and laugh at stupid people.
that does sound like it would be a grand time. you're probably the only person i know that can watch as much buffy as i do, which makes you extra special in my book!
Yay! Really though, anytime you want to visit please feel free to stay with me. I miss you, and god knows I could use to have a friend around right now.
Re: Your Elliot Smith FeelingseremitanNovember 14 2004, 19:03:58 UTC
i have not gotten the new elliot smith yet and i'm not really sure when i will be getting it. but i'll be sure to let you know what my thoughts on the record are when i do finally get my dirty little hands on it.
awww frankie.... i keep reading all these posts from you, and danielle, and lian, and caitlin, and all these portland kids i knew, and you are all like "i miss the life i had in portland!"...
it makes me so sad that yr all so far away from each other and missing yr little queer bike-ridin family!!
anyways, hugs to you, and i hope you find some people to do semi normal stuff with sometimes....i miss you lots! xoxo
well thanks for the kind words...some day i'll be living the life i'd like to be living. if that makes sense. until then i'll keep chugging along and hope i meet people that will be a more substantial part of my life.
i miss you too, sweetness and i hope everything is going swimmingly for you!
Dude, do your hair thing and then move to Atlanta. Or move to Atlanta and then do your hair thing. They have an Aveda school here too. Anyway, all I do is eat Gelato and shop and go on nature trails and have game nights w/ friends and eat at fucking great resteraunts everywhere. It's fantastic. I've only been to a club twice, and I left early both times, so I understand. I'm not feeling it much anymore. But you'd better still go out when I go down there on Thanksgiving bitch.
first thing's first...i have to actually visit atlanta. and hey...if i like it more than i like nyc then maybe i will move there. ya never know. and bitch...you know i'll be going out when you're in town!
It's highly doubtful that you will like it MORE than NYC, BUT you will like the cost of living more than NYC for sure. I'm more of a more bang for your buck kinda guy, if you know what I mean. Plus there's one thing that ATL has that NYC definitely does not...ME.
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The thing I've noticed is once someone's a club friend, it's really really hard to be friends with them outside that setting. When the club and getting drunk are the only two things you have in common, it's really hard to build a solid friendship. But start with the few people you actually do things with outside the club, and build from there. Good luck.
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It's certainly gloomy as fuck.
BTW you should get Gary Numan's Replicas if you don't have it already.
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it makes me so sad that yr all so far away from each other and missing yr little queer bike-ridin family!!
anyways, hugs to you, and i hope you find some people to do semi normal stuff with sometimes....i miss you lots!
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i miss you too, sweetness and i hope everything is going swimmingly for you!
ex.oh.
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