MocaChino, you speak with such coherent wisdom. You really blow my mind. I don't think that there is an answer to that luv, I guess that you just have to go think with your soul and just figure out for yourself if what you're doing is right. If you're not hurting anybody and is something gives you joy then go for it. Keep on daydreaming Belladonna, I'm thinking of you.
Hi Cinna! *hugs* I hope everything's alright with you. I have to check on your news, I haven't been home to do so ;) I'm glad you're here *hugs* I just get the feeling that stardom only benefits the major movie companies and no one more, not the fan and not the actors. But I have nothing against fans, I'm one of them. But this sometimes seems such a waste of time and effort, don't you think? And I don't believe fans are doing something wrong, liking their idols (i'm not counting the stalkers :P ) but aren't we doing something wrong to the people we idolize in some situations? We're asking too much of them... although I think one more or one less fan doesn't make a difference in a star life, so I'm not leaving this fandom yet ;)
Wow Mónica, you said that so beautiful and true and I'm completely with you. I can't add anything more 'cause you've already said everything. And the little Turn my head poem, it fits so well. I just envy you for the way you're always able to say things so beautiful and right.
And projecting the image of the prince charming into someone doesn't make that person a prince of fairytales. *stands up and applauses*
Wow! *hides with shame* I don't like to be on the spotlight *hugs* That was something I was thinking at 3AM while reading the fanfic I've mentioned. Sometimes I take things too deep and have to let them out. This was one of those situations. *hugs* And thanks for the support ;)
I have thought about it before too, and I asked myself, "Self, if Orli wasn't famous, and you saw him walking down the street, would you feel the same way you did when you first saw him on-screen?" I think that the answer is no. But, he IS famous and I DIDN'T see him on the street, so, who knows... I don't think that any of us has ever said that we were TRULY in love with him, and I think that most of us here know when to stop... I hope... lol. I mean, there are many things that are fun to know about a celebrity crush, but you have to know when to stop delving into their private world and I think that WE all know. I feel bad when I see those crazy girls who see him at primeres and they are crying and screaming, like that is going to make him attracted to them and the ones who write fan letter after fan letter expecting some sort of personal reply and then are depressed when they don't get one (I've known that kind). I mean, that poor celebrity, what is he supposed to think when he discovers that millions of young girls are fantasizing
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No, I think what you're saying is very very right. I guess I'm not the only one who cringes at those girls then hehe. No, I think it's all good...and anyways some of those Orli/Viggo slashes are reeeeeally hot! No-one's going to deprive me of that! ;-)
I think if I saw him in the street I would probably turn my head to him... he's gorgeous, even if he was an anonymous guy walking down the street. But even knowing details from his private life, as his relationship with Kate and that Harry isn't his father... I think that's too much. Eeep! I don't know what to think, the fandom has his high and down sides, we just need to balance them ;)
for me, i so know what you mean and that's the major reason why i refuse to read slash or sex scenes 'cos i do feel the invasion of privacy...like i'm a "peeping tom" and i sorta dont think it's right for people to commit those sorts of fantasies to paper (or screen rather) 'cos it's using them and sorta degrading them as a human. but that's how i would always feel with people who write about REAL people whether famous or not.
'cos it's using them and sorta degrading them as a human That's what I feel ;) I agree that everybody has it's fantasies, but we can only take that one step too far, and what the fanfic tend to do.
wow i have never thought about that..would i still like orlando if he wasnt famous. well if i saw him walk down my street i have a feeling i would definity fall in love with him..but i would no nothing about him..
Yeah... and you know what? It wasn't his looks that made me fall for this guy, but his personallity, the answers he gives in the interviews. If you think about it, there's a million celebrity guys that are prettier than him. It's the image we give to Orlando, the way we think he acts, he responds to others, that make us be his fans, not his real self, we don't know him that way.
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I'm glad you're here *hugs*
I just get the feeling that stardom only benefits the major movie companies and no one more, not the fan and not the actors. But I have nothing against fans, I'm one of them. But this sometimes seems such a waste of time and effort, don't you think? And I don't believe fans are doing something wrong, liking their idols (i'm not counting the stalkers :P ) but aren't we doing something wrong to the people we idolize in some situations? We're asking too much of them... although I think one more or one less fan doesn't make a difference in a star life, so I'm not leaving this fandom yet ;)
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And projecting the image of the prince charming into someone doesn't make that person a prince of fairytales.
*stands up and applauses*
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That was something I was thinking at 3AM while reading the fanfic I've mentioned. Sometimes I take things too deep and have to let them out. This was one of those situations. *hugs* And thanks for the support ;)
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Eeep! I don't know what to think, the fandom has his high and down sides, we just need to balance them ;)
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and i sorta dont think it's right for people to commit those sorts of fantasies to paper (or screen rather) 'cos it's using them and sorta degrading them as a human. but that's how i would always feel with people who write about REAL people whether famous or not.
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That's what I feel ;)
I agree that everybody has it's fantasies, but we can only take that one step too far, and what the fanfic tend to do.
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Podia ajudar-me a procurar? Ela tem vinte e dois anos. Ela tem cabelo castanho/preto e liso. Os olhos são castanhos.
Was that correct portuguese lol
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Eheheh! You speak portuguese wonderfuly *hugs*
And by the way... I'm baaaack! :P
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