1.) So do you just come out and tell someone that they annoy you or do you just let it go and not really pursue a conversation and let things just die on the vine
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1) Unless there's an unusual circumstance, I'll normally just let things slide when someone annoys me. Unless it comes to a head for some reason, I'll avoid the person or avoid the situation.
2)I don't think there is a set time period for knowing if if's more serious; it just either happens or it doesn't. If your end goal is to have a serious relationship, and you don't feel serious about that person you do have to consider moving on.
3) Hmmm.... Attraction/desire, trust, equality, commitment....attention maybe? Just off the top of my head.
4) Move on. Eventually, you have to move on. If that's the top of your list and you're not getting it, you're compromising yourself.
1.) So do you just come out and tell someone that they annoy you or do you just let it go and not really pursue a conversation and let things just die on the vine?
I try to just leave the conversation without having to confront the person. However, if they pursue a conversation, I say, "Well, I've gotta go now."
2.) When dating someone, after how long do you have an idea of whether or not you want to be more serious with them? And if you pass that time and things are just "fine"...do you move on or give it more time?
I think you need at least five good dates. The first few, you really go out of your way to make them comfortable. After that, all the rudeness and suppressed urges start coming out. If my oddness matches their oddness after five, I think it's good. If they seem different after that, I may make them into "just a friend", or I might just drop them all together.
3.) What are the 5 or 6 things that you *must* have in a relationship?I feel so superficial saying this, but I've gotta have physical attraction. However, what I
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1) depends on what it is, and how badly it annoys me. i'm fairly non-confrontational, but get on one of my hot button topics (i.e. make a homophobic joke), and you will hear it from me. usually, i tend to be live and let live - is it really worth it to rag on someone for something minor? usually not (IMHO)
2) totally depends on the person. i usually decide fairly quickly (within a month).
3) lack of jealousy, intelligence, good lines of communication, common political views (not identical, just similar), not die-hard christian, similar music tastes
4) possibly. depends on how good everything else is (bottom two being music tastes and common political views)
1.) So do you just come out and tell someone that they annoy you or do you just let it go and not really pursue a conversation and let things just die on the vine
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2)I don't think there is a set time period for knowing if if's more serious; it just either happens or it doesn't. If your end goal is to have a serious relationship, and you don't feel serious about that person you do have to consider moving on.
3) Hmmm.... Attraction/desire, trust, equality, commitment....attention maybe? Just off the top of my head.
4) Move on. Eventually, you have to move on. If that's the top of your list and you're not getting it, you're compromising yourself.
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I try to just leave the conversation without having to confront the person. However, if they pursue a conversation, I say, "Well, I've gotta go now."
2.) When dating someone, after how long do you have an idea of whether or not you want to be more serious with them? And if you pass that time and things are just "fine"...do you move on or give it more time?
I think you need at least five good dates. The first few, you really go out of your way to make them comfortable. After that, all the rudeness and suppressed urges start coming out. If my oddness matches their oddness after five, I think it's good. If they seem different after that, I may make them into "just a friend", or I might just drop them all together.
3.) What are the 5 or 6 things that you *must* have in a relationship?I feel so superficial saying this, but I've gotta have physical attraction. However, what I ( ... )
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2) totally depends on the person. i usually decide fairly quickly (within a month).
3) lack of jealousy, intelligence, good lines of communication, common political views (not identical, just similar), not die-hard christian, similar music tastes
4) possibly. depends on how good everything else is (bottom two being music tastes and common political views)
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