Belief congruency vs emotional congruency

[erratio]

A while back I read this post. Short version: When people get into verbal fights, their styles can be roughly split into truth-shouters, who say the truths that they would normally hold back or find themselves unable to express, versus cutlery-loaders, who say all kinds of things that may or may not be true in order to blow off steam and get a

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[andrewducker]

That makes a lot of sense to me. I'm naturally a truth-shouter, and used to get very confused by cutlery-loaders too!