Comments | eruthiadwen: Stupidstupidstupidstupid.

eruthiadwen

Stupidstupidstupidstupid.

Jan 25, 2006 15:23

Ya know what I hate? Stupid boys. Stupid, immature, blind, cruel, manipulative bastardly boys, who will take advantage of a girl to get close to her best friend.

I don't care about my own love life. Or lack of.

But if some loser fucks with a friend, then I get pissed off ( Read more... )

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avaro_naeth January 25 2006, 21:04:10 UTC

boys are stupid. throw rocks at them.

eruthiadwen January 26 2006, 01:07:27 UTC

Yay. :)

invisible_dream January 25 2006, 21:09:00 UTC

indeed. boys ARE stupid. and you know what? they never grow out of it

eruthiadwen January 26 2006, 01:08:18 UTC

Great. >_

gnomentum January 25 2006, 22:48:53 UTC

SO not exclusive to teenage boys....

But there ARE some good 'und out there :-)

eruthiadwen January 26 2006, 01:09:53 UTC

Good to know. Maybe I'll actually find one eventually. :P

gnomentum January 26 2006, 08:30:54 UTC

It's taken me til I was 31!

p0ison1vy January 25 2006, 23:51:00 UTC

Girls do this sort of thing too, of course. Boys just don't burst into tears about it at school, usually.

Maybe it was kinda stupid, but it wasn't THAT stupid. Of course it hurt Amy, but--
did Steve even know the extent of how Amy felt? It doesn't really make any sense that he'd get all close to amy, JUST so that he could get close to whatsherface. If he wanted to get close to whatseherface, he would've done it.
He probably just likes Amy as a friend and always has. And that sucks but... *shrugs* That's life.

I may not know anything about this, but it seems to me that Amy was getting her hopes up. She was getting her hopes really high up. She was excited and hyper and giddy about things because she liked/s him, and when he did things that suggested even a slight bit that he liked her back, that made her rreaaaally happy (as was demonstrated in the past few science classes.) I wouldn't be surprised if she embellished a little on the things he did. Don't we all overrexhaggerate a bit when we have a crush on someone? *shrugs ( ... )

eruthiadwen January 26 2006, 01:55:11 UTC

It's true. Amy does set her hopes really high. And she's been like that for as long as I've known her. If the guy she likes so much looks at her she'll be over the moon about it. And that's one thing I'd change about her if I could. Amy luv, boys are mere mortals like the rest of us... remember that, ka?

As for this whole Steve thing... well, she's liked him for a long time. He never even liked her as a friend to begin with, let alone anything more; he found her "physically unappealing" and "annoying". Told his friends that, they told her. She was pretty torn up about it.

And then when he started showing interest in her - walking her home, hanging out with her, calling her - I guess she just became really, really happy about it. And she said to me tonight, "It's not so much the fact that he was using me to get closer to Alyssa... it's the fact that I was fucking stupid enough to believe he could ever like me ( ... )

p0ison1vy January 26 2006, 15:10:53 UTC

She might have gotten her hopes high, but he still shouldn't have treated her like that.

Treated her like what? He just told his friends what he honestly thought about her. Somehow it got back to her. I don't think he maliciously did anything to her. From hearing what Amy was telling us, it appears that Amy was the one pursuing HIM. It's not like he tricked her so that he could break her heart.
I can understand why he'd think amy was annoying.
And as far as physically unappealing-- we all have our preferences. It's not like he just called her "ugly" (from what you're telling me anyways.)
I don't think anyone is to blame in all this.
And I don't think you can justifiedly be angry at Steve either. I can understand you being upset for Amy's sake. And I know it must be really frustrating for Amy, but I can also put myself in Steve's shoes and have empathy for the situation he was in.

eruthiadwen January 26 2006, 16:57:04 UTC

I'm not angry at him for telling his friends what he thought of her; he's more than entitled to that. It's just like if some guy liked her she'd be more than entitled to tell me what she thought of him, whether it was good or bad.

I'm referring to him using Amy to get closer to Alyssa. That is what pissed me off. He knew that she liked him; she didn't exactly make a secret of that. Maybe he didn't know how much she really liked him, but he still knew.

And I know that if I was head-over-heels for someone, and he pretended to like me so he could get closer to my best friend... I would be angry and upset too.

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