I kinda thought you'd know what I was talking about.
Yeah, I think that's why you haven't heard anything. That IS helpful to know, though.
Eventually XD Maybe a Value Village expedition at some point. HOUSEWARES! Probably next month sometime would be good for hanging out, since I'll have a bus pass and I won't feel bad about using bus tickets.
Most people just aren't the type to tell someone else that they have problems with them without any sort of provocation, otherwise it's just going to make them look like an ass. Granted, this is different when you're dealing with 'friends', but that can make things a lot more complicated. A friend wants to be considerate of your feelings too eh?
Confrontation is something most people want to avoid, which is pretty much the reason something like your example might happen. If you know someone has a problem with you and you have a problem with it, it's best to take the confrontation straight to them.. I doubt you'll be finding many volunteers to come and flame you here.
Confrontation is probably a bad word. A decent sit-down conversation will usually get points from either side across, because there's nothing like a big fight to make things awkward.
Oh, I understand that. But I thought if I asked, maybe I'd get some sort of response. I dunno..
I dislike confrontation as much as the next person, but I thought since I was asking for it, maybe... (and plus its livejournal, drama center XD I'm sure you've seen some of the flame wars..). I think I'll do that though, just talk to the people individually. Its hard to do if they don't want to have a sit-down, face to face conversation though :\ hmm.
I want to settle this all peacefully, but the other day I was just so fed up I resorted to this ^_^;; Thanks for your input though~
Man, that sucks. To tell you the truth, I wouldn't call those people 'friends' anymore. When you think about it, real friends would tell you what's up ... and unless if the reason is good, they have no reason to say 'I don't want you there' or whatever. Seriously, that's fucking rude.
I know it's kind of mean of me to say since I don't really know these people, but I would say drop 'em.
As for me having any problems with you? Well, I have none to say whatsoever ... except for the fact that time zones suck elephant balls therefore preventing us from talking as much anymore. But what can you do? It's not exactly a problem that has to do with you, just ... where you're placed on this planet.
Yeah, I know what you're saying, and I agree with you. Though I AM a bit hesitant to just drop people out of my life :P.
Any yeah, the timezones suck. Its your fault for moving away XD. Ah well, next holiday time, I'll be up late till 4am my time, and I'll be seeing you on msn again :P
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Yeah, I think that's why you haven't heard anything. That IS helpful to know, though.
Eventually XD Maybe a Value Village expedition at some point. HOUSEWARES! Probably next month sometime would be good for hanging out, since I'll have a bus pass and I won't feel bad about using bus tickets.
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Nobody I know has any problems with you that I'm aware of as well.
I bet this won't cause any drama.
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Most people just aren't the type to tell someone else that they have problems with them without any sort of provocation, otherwise it's just going to make them look like an ass. Granted, this is different when you're dealing with 'friends', but that can make things a lot more complicated. A friend wants to be considerate of your feelings too eh?
Confrontation is something most people want to avoid, which is pretty much the reason something like your example might happen. If you know someone has a problem with you and you have a problem with it, it's best to take the confrontation straight to them.. I doubt you'll be finding many volunteers to come and flame you here.
Confrontation is probably a bad word. A decent sit-down conversation will usually get points from either side across, because there's nothing like a big fight to make things awkward.
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I dislike confrontation as much as the next person, but I thought since I was asking for it, maybe... (and plus its livejournal, drama center XD I'm sure you've seen some of the flame wars..). I think I'll do that though, just talk to the people individually. Its hard to do if they don't want to have a sit-down, face to face conversation though :\ hmm.
I want to settle this all peacefully, but the other day I was just so fed up I resorted to this ^_^;; Thanks for your input though~
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I know it's kind of mean of me to say since I don't really know these people, but I would say drop 'em.
As for me having any problems with you? Well, I have none to say whatsoever ... except for the fact that time zones suck elephant balls therefore preventing us from talking as much anymore. But what can you do? It's not exactly a problem that has to do with you, just ... where you're placed on this planet.
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Any yeah, the timezones suck. Its your fault for moving away XD. Ah well, next holiday time, I'll be up late till 4am my time, and I'll be seeing you on msn again :P
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