Happy/Sad Can't Decide

[etherealdream]

I think if any one asked me "Who is your worst enemy?" my answer would be Myself/Media/Mirros (three M's) I have been going through this ugly phase (I'm sorry to anyone I have already complained too), I feel like the ugliest person in the world. I have been on this kick on trying to improve myslef, like getting contacts and trying differents

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[bitter_crimson]

a) I think your new haircut is really cute.
b) No, you shouldn't put any weight on what random people on Gaia say, in my opinion. Then again, you can't help it if your mind tries to put weight on it. But seriously. These people don't know you. They just want other who fit into whatever perfect little image they're trying to adhere to. That's pretty much the internet in a nutshell, though. Back when Libby was really into Gaia, she posted stuff about how much she liked Gothic Lolita and complained about not being able to find any in the U.S. What'd she get? People chewing her out because she "shouldn't try to adhere to one look, blah blah blah, don't conform." Um. Right. Because it makes sense that a person trying to end conformity would tell others what to do/wear/etc.? Anyway. Libby got really upset and I basically hit her on the head and explained that the people were idiots. Still, I know it bothered her. And sometimes that can't be helped. Ehh. Life.

[redymaderubbish]

I've been called ugly lots of times 'specially during middle school, but whatever. I got pretty conscious about it, though. I don't knoe, I mean, you're lucky to be born with everything in place. Even though I was born with part of my face split, I still consider myself lucky, too.

And really, those so-called beautiful people you see on TV and junk, most of them had surgury to look like that. Plus makeup. Photoshop. Lots 9_9;. That kind of beauty isn't... natural. So, you knoe, be happy with what you have. Besides, you're blessed with such a kick-ass personality >=D Heh heh heh

[choconilla]

i would say..define beauty.
the media is a poor yardstick to do it with. everyone is beautiful. but obviously in comparison to others they'll find something wrong with themsleves. we've all done that. i've done that. i still do. but it's ok. because after a while...i got sick of being unsatisfied with myself. i've been wasting too much energy into thinking what i should look like instead of being thankful for what i have in life. there are a lot of people who would envy me. and i'm not saying that to be cocky. sarah, i can't force you to be happy with yourself...u'll do that in due time. it is really hard to be happy in a world that lives of judging others. it takes time hon...just hang in there till then. one day you'll get tired enough to realize you don't give a shit cause you have to live your life and that there is more beyond your reflection in the mirror.
so good luck

[lefteyeright]

it's simple:
take it from the lesbo, you're not ugly

[etherealdream]

*tear* Thank you all! I love you all! You guys are the best-est friends a girl could ever have! I don't know how to thank you all! Hopefull just knowing you have made me feel better, is reward!! ::Huggles::
Love ya'll
~Sarah~