Back on the bus, headed in the opposite direction. I can't imagine how our weekend together could have been any better unless it was longer
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(This is something else I never could have done before. I would have brooded all weekend about her leaving, and not made the most out of our time together.)
I think you did very well with this, then. There was never any feeling of brooding, even on Monday morning, even on Sunday night when you reluctantly brought up Monday morning. And I think even when I made some allusion at the beginning of the weekend to eventually having to go, you said something like "No! We're not thinking about that now!" :-)
Thanks :) Those thoughts did pop up once or twice, but I was able to squash them down. So many of my old hang ups are just going away, or are gone completely. It's liberating!
Progress is important, and necessary, if things are to, you know Progress.
Thank you for summarizing your feelings. I so relate to what you say about not being able to wait, but having to! dayfal and I were dealing with a three-hour time difference for our Skype and phone dates, and there were way, way too many late nights. We eventually dealt with it by talking less...which was only tolerable because we were working on concrete plans for him to move to me.
If you know what you want, logistics really are the most difficult part.
Thanks. Advice and support are always appreciated, but honestly it doesn't help all that much right now! :) (But... three-hour difference? Yikes. I don't feel quite so bad about our measly ONE-hour difference!)
We had a really good day today, quite an excellent day in fact! And made some PROGRESS indeed! These amazing feelings are making it all worth it, and more.
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I think you did very well with this, then. There was never any feeling of brooding, even on Monday morning, even on Sunday night when you reluctantly brought up Monday morning. And I think even when I made some allusion at the beginning of the weekend to eventually having to go, you said something like "No! We're not thinking about that now!" :-)
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Thank you for summarizing your feelings. I so relate to what you say about not being able to wait, but having to! dayfal and I were dealing with a three-hour time difference for our Skype and phone dates, and there were way, way too many late nights. We eventually dealt with it by talking less...which was only tolerable because we were working on concrete plans for him to move to me.
If you know what you want, logistics really are the most difficult part.
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We had a really good day today, quite an excellent day in fact! And made some PROGRESS indeed! These amazing feelings are making it all worth it, and more.
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