being single......

[etxgal]

Ok.... I have officially decided that being single SUCKS!! Now I know why I stayed in my relationship with my EX for 12 years..... I HATE dating! The games that go along with it all, the time and energy it takes to get to know someone new, and the uncertainty that it MIGHT ever turn into something "real

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[dark_moonlight]

Some times I like being single. Though I do wish for the same things you do. I actually had that "feeling frisky early morning sex...the flowers for no reason...the just called cause i want to hear your voice...the hard to breathe cause he turns me on so much...the all night intimate sessions cause we can't get enough of each other", for a short while. This guy pursued me for what seemed to be a long ass time, then moved away and it all changed. I've come to the conclusion that guys suck. But it's so fun being single sometimes. I work at Chili's in the Casa Linda place and there is this 25 year old guy that is oh so hot and I thank goodness I'm single! I'm trying my best to get him under my spell but his shield is very strong, plus he just broke up with his girlfriend less than a week ago. So being single has it's perks. ;)
aoe
~Vivi

[etxgal]

Single does have its perks... I give you that. First feeling of butterflies when you find that you have that natural spark with someone, getting to explore each other's minds AND bodies, figuring out what makes each other tick. But at my age, the search tends to become a little like the needle in the haystack myth. Finding people I am attracted to, intellectually stimulated by and have fun with is the easy part. The fact that isn't so easy is that most of them are in relationships, married, GAY! LOL Or far worse...have had their hearts twisted and broken so badly that they just can't handle the possibility of a relationship EVER. LOL.... But the search continues... I keep my faith that somewhere, someday I WILL find my needle! :)