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I'm calling a truce, due to a higher concern. I'm asking you to please pass this on to your sister, as I don't want to go to her job to tell her this.
It's a relatively long story as to exactly HOW I retrieved this information, but... is Amy aware that Bob was not only sleeping with ME when she got pregnant, but he was ALSO sleeping with someone else? Sean's mom, Linda, to be exact. I know it sounds crazy, but I've seen the messages between them with my own eyes. That is part of why he no longer has his AT phone. She didn't seem to care much about Amy being pregnant because he told her (as he told me) that he doesn't remember sleeping with her, he doesn't want the child, etc. But as soon as she found out that he's back with me, they fought, and she turned his phone off. She was never paying for that phone out of the kindness of her heart, or because he was like a son to her, it's because they were sleeping together. As I said, I saw the messages between them with my own eyes... and they were very detailed and graphic. It had been going on for quite some time. As nauseating as it may be to think about, it is a serious issue. It also raises even more suspicion, not to mention liklihood, that there may have been even more than just the three of us.
If she hasn't already been, please ask Amy to get tested since she last slept with Bob. There may be animosity between us, but this is very serious and no woman deserves to be treated this way. She also doesn't deserve to catch a [potentially deadly] disease from a habitually cheating husband.
It is likely that I will be leaving him again soon, and I'm telling you this so she can prepare for him to most likely try to come crawling back. If she takes him back, that is ultimately her decision... but please beg her to reconsider if she does - for her own health and safety, as well as the kids'. It would truly be a horrible thing if she ended up with a deadly STD, leaving the kids motherless eventually, because of his fucking around and his pathological lying. I know, when you love someone so much, how much you want to believe what they say, especially when they tell you they'll change. Hell, uI did it with Bob this time. He swore he'd be with me and only me. But the sad truth is that they never change and it took me getting a yeast infection to throw reality in my face. I've never had a yeast infection in my entire life, then Bob comes over after being gone for about 4 days and we had sex. A couple days later it developed. There is no other explanation, especially after the suspicious goings on of the 4 days he was gone. I am unbelievably thankful that I didn't catch something more serious, and it made me see that he doesn't care enough about ME to tell me the truth, nor does he care about either of us enough to protect himself if he's going to cheat.
I want to live. I not only need to be here, but I want to be here for my son. These little boys are more important than Bob, or any man, could ever be.
Sorry for the novel, I just wanted to express my concern. I do have a genuine concern. Please, please, please ask her to get tested. Mine came back negative, but I still think it's imperative for her to get tested.
If she wants to discuss this with me, I'd be more than willing to meet her for lunch or something - I don't go into work until 3:30pm. Bob doesn't need to know about it, as he would only lie to both of us beforehand. I promise not to attack her or anything, if she does choose she would like to chat. I actually think it would be immensely beneficial for us both.
I'm opening my messages to everyone, so if you or she would like to reply, you may. Please know that this is not an attack of any kind, it is simply a warning out of true concern.
There is an incredibly long story preceeding this, but I don't have the time to elaborate now.
It's a relatively long story as to exactly HOW I retrieved this information, but... is Amy aware that Bob was not only sleeping with ME when she got pregnant, but he was ALSO sleeping with someone else? Sean's mom, Linda, to be exact. I know it sounds crazy, but I've seen the messages between them with my own eyes. That is part of why he no longer has his AT phone. She didn't seem to care much about Amy being pregnant because he told her (as he told me) that he doesn't remember sleeping with her, he doesn't want the child, etc. But as soon as she found out that he's back with me, they fought, and she turned his phone off. She was never paying for that phone out of the kindness of her heart, or because he was like a son to her, it's because they were sleeping together. As I said, I saw the messages between them with my own eyes... and they were very detailed and graphic. It had been going on for quite some time. As nauseating as it may be to think about, it is a serious issue. It also raises even more suspicion, not to mention liklihood, that there may have been even more than just the three of us.
If she hasn't already been, please ask Amy to get tested since she last slept with Bob. There may be animosity between us, but this is very serious and no woman deserves to be treated this way. She also doesn't deserve to catch a [potentially deadly] disease from a habitually cheating husband.
It is likely that I will be leaving him again soon, and I'm telling you this so she can prepare for him to most likely try to come crawling back. If she takes him back, that is ultimately her decision... but please beg her to reconsider if she does - for her own health and safety, as well as the kids'. It would truly be a horrible thing if she ended up with a deadly STD, leaving the kids motherless eventually, because of his fucking around and his pathological lying. I know, when you love someone so much, how much you want to believe what they say, especially when they tell you they'll change. Hell, uI did it with Bob this time. He swore he'd be with me and only me. But the sad truth is that they never change and it took me getting a yeast infection to throw reality in my face. I've never had a yeast infection in my entire life, then Bob comes over after being gone for about 4 days and we had sex. A couple days later it developed. There is no other explanation, especially after the suspicious goings on of the 4 days he was gone. I am unbelievably thankful that I didn't catch something more serious, and it made me see that he doesn't care enough about ME to tell me the truth, nor does he care about either of us enough to protect himself if he's going to cheat.
I want to live. I not only need to be here, but I want to be here for my son. These little boys are more important than Bob, or any man, could ever be.
Sorry for the novel, I just wanted to express my concern. I do have a genuine concern. Please, please, please ask her to get tested. Mine came back negative, but I still think it's imperative for her to get tested.
If she wants to discuss this with me, I'd be more than willing to meet her for lunch or something - I don't go into work until 3:30pm. Bob doesn't need to know about it, as he would only lie to both of us beforehand. I promise not to attack her or anything, if she does choose she would like to chat. I actually think it would be immensely beneficial for us both.
I'm opening my messages to everyone, so if you or she would like to reply, you may. Please know that this is not an attack of any kind, it is simply a warning out of true concern.
There is an incredibly long story preceeding this, but I don't have the time to elaborate now.