so apparently this:
http://twitpic.com/5y8k8is too old-looking, an awful colour, and also too long so will drag through mud (for May Ball).
after much throwing of furniture, here are some of the suggested alternatives:
Midnight taffeta ball gownWine taffeta ruched ballgownWine taffeta waterfall ball gownDark red taffeta ball gown all of which i tend to think will only highlight chinese-swimmer shoulders even more, and are just as long so will still drag in mud anyway, but hey, what do i know? :\
p/s: who holds a ball outside anyway?? :\