I would like to say Tami, though it may not be my place. That is it a simple matter of mis-communication and not seeing the others point of view.
Want to hear my example?
Last night, I ask jokingly if I could talk to Adam on your computer. That being the scenario. What proceeding, was you to reply 'No, I don't let ugly people talk through my computer.'
Now, after original feelings of serious hurt, I thought about it. Yes, I did ask while you were already doing something. Yes, I should have not taken it to heart considering the past week you've had, and how hurt you have been.
I just would have liked if you would have been..a little more delicate about something *I* care so much about. Yes, you are my friend. And I won't hold it against you. I mean ,everyone has shitty days :p Just, know it did hurt. And, I'd prefer if you didn't refer to someone I love as 'Fugly'. Because really, I don't see him that way. And, I guess I just want to share the happiness it brings me.
Going off topic, just saying. Mis-comunication is a bitch.
She was calling you fugly, if that makes you feel any better. Yes, misunderstandings can be issues...
What Kim may have been getting at is that, quite bluntly, the world doesn't revolve around you. I understand you getting upset about the water thing- I've reacted worse in a similar situation. I even understand that you were upset about her taking his side, however they were playing pranks so I understand her side of it too.
If I was Kim I would have said, "No, I'm not getting involved, call her yourself", but that wouldn't be an excellent example of mediation skills. I think it would be a good idea to, if you haven't already done so, try calling her and acknowledge/understand the reasons she's upset at you and express your reasons for being upset at her.
*phew*. My ring finger is getting stiff, so... ohh yeh, I can ride my bike with no handlebars, no handlebars, no handlebars... *falls off the edge of a bank*
1. No, I disagree. 2. Congratulations on such an irrelevant and inferior comment. You got my round of applause. 3. Because you touch yourself at night.
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Want to hear my example?
Last night, I ask jokingly if I could talk to Adam on your computer.
That being the scenario.
What proceeding, was you to reply 'No, I don't let ugly people talk through my computer.'
Now, after original feelings of serious hurt, I thought about it.
Yes, I did ask while you were already doing something. Yes, I should have not taken it to heart considering the past week you've had, and how hurt you have been.
I just would have liked if you would have been..a little more delicate about something *I* care so much about.
Yes, you are my friend. And I won't hold it against you. I mean ,everyone has shitty days :p
Just, know it did hurt. And, I'd prefer if you didn't refer to someone I love as 'Fugly'. Because really, I don't see him that way. And, I guess I just want to share the happiness it brings me.
Going off topic, just saying. Mis-comunication is a bitch.
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What Kim may have been getting at is that, quite bluntly, the world doesn't revolve around you. I understand you getting upset about the water thing- I've reacted worse in a similar situation. I even understand that you were upset about her taking his side, however they were playing pranks so I understand her side of it too.
If I was Kim I would have said, "No, I'm not getting involved, call her yourself", but that wouldn't be an excellent example of mediation skills. I think it would be a good idea to, if you haven't already done so, try calling her and acknowledge/understand the reasons she's upset at you and express your reasons for being upset at her.
*phew*. My ring finger is getting stiff, so... ohh yeh, I can ride my bike with no handlebars, no handlebars, no handlebars... *falls off the edge of a bank*
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Secondly, I was calling Alana BEFORE Tami asked to talk to her.
Thirdly, why are you still talking to people who clearly detest that you still exist?
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2. Congratulations on such an irrelevant and inferior comment. You got my round of applause.
3. Because you touch yourself at night.
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