yes you heard it. i am actually going to make a post about something that isn't really just how my life is going... well it is but more like a in depth view on myself, my views, and my life
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sheepie, i do know how you feel. it is something that does not get easier. leaving luna all thoes times was one of the hardest things i had to do. after the first time in boston, when the train left. i just sat on a bench for awhile before i went and got on one that would take me away.
I do not think it gets easier as time goes. but knowing that you will see eachother again will keep you together (or at least you in one peice). you know why they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, beacuse it actually is true. you dont relise how much someone means to you untill you have to go without them for a period of time.
and you know i'm around way more then i should be, if you ever wanna you know talk. YAY for free time, in excessive quanities
I also sympathasize. It hurts so much after making one so happy every time you see the person. But it can work. Its really hard and it requires some sacrifices, but LD can work. I've been doing it now for more than 2-3 years and although it gets sad soemtimes, the wonderfulness of just being together makes up for it. I'm sure if you guys try you'll find a way to work it out. Maybe even when Keith finishes college he can find a job out there or something. I have faith in you both. *hugs*
Tiff one thing that I don't understand is..why do you take on others responsibilites and others happinesses and ignore your own? I understand that you want to help your grandma and grandpa, but if you are misrable up there then I don't think they would want that. If you want to come back then come back. College is a time for you, if the best school is over their then don't let distance get you down...we will always be here for you...YOU just have to call us once in a while! But if you are JUST over there because of your grand parents then you are putting your life on hold. Helpping is cool,being a Martyer isn't. and i bet your going yeah yeah eaiser said then done jen ..but it is that easy...if you are unhappy, you are not obligated to stay. you are the kid tiff, they are the adults and they've been taking care of themselves for a while know. you need to be thinking of your future
Love you TIffmakoseasallSeptember 29 2004, 00:55:07 UTC
Change is hard to bear especially when the ones you love seem far away. We are all here for you though, like you were always there for us. You should do what you feel is right for you, be it staying or going. Maybe its just the transistion, or maybe it really does suck there with all those ignorant people who dont realize how wonderful you are. Either way though, I will be there for you as will everyone else, because we do care about your happiness and we want to help. So call or write or whatever but there will always be people who love you and unfortunately we seem to be on the East coast but still, no matter the time. We're always open like a cheap french whore or 7-11, neither are really clean but you get the idea. Love you, halley. makosfalcon - aim makoseasall@yahoo.com
i have this thing for quotes.. so here's two that i liked..
"I don't believe in long distance love; if you love someone, he is always right there, within your heart."
"..contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they dont see it nearly enough..."
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I do not think it gets easier as time goes. but knowing that you will see eachother again will keep you together (or at least you in one peice). you know why they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, beacuse it actually is true. you dont relise how much someone means to you untill you have to go without them for a period of time.
and you know i'm around way more then i should be, if you ever wanna you know talk. YAY for free time, in excessive quanities
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I understand that you want to help your grandma and grandpa, but if you are misrable up there then I don't think they would want that. If you want to come back then come back. College is a time for you, if the best school is over their then don't let distance get you down...we will always be here for you...YOU just have to call us once in a while! But if you are JUST over there because of your grand parents then you are putting your life on hold. Helpping is cool,being a Martyer isn't. and i bet your going yeah yeah eaiser said then done jen ..but it is that easy...if you are unhappy, you are not obligated to stay. you are the kid tiff, they are the adults and they've been taking care of themselves for a while know. you need to be thinking of your future
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"I don't believe in long distance love; if you love someone, he is always right there, within your heart."
"..contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they dont see it nearly enough..."
*hug*
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