A girls intuition always seems to be right

[evildoll]

Well my boyfriend of 5 months, took me to starbucks tonight and broke up with me. His excuse was that he is still very young and needs to soil his wild oats while he still can. He wants to be wild and have fun and not have to worry about hurting me in the process. I'm pretty upset at him right now. He told me that he still really cares a lot

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[ryogahibiki01]

*big hug*
sorry to hear about what happened tonite. shit like that fucking sucks. hope u feel better soon.

[evildoll]

Thanks, i'll feel a lot better when i get some freakin sleep. I don't think i even slept last night at all!

[theshadowsouled]

I loved that "soil his wild oats"

So appropriately inappropriate.

Ah well. If I knew him I'd've advised him to handle things differently. But then I was always a different type of person.

All in all I'm sure it was for the best. And, don't worry, he'll date a number of girls who'll make you seem like a God! (dess).

[benny_blunts]

hey, you didnt want to be with a gut who isnt ready anyways. and isnt it better that he told you and was upfront instead of you finding girls #'s or something worse. Guys suck. Trust me i am one. Take soem time and worry about you. Keep busy too the more you just sit around and do nothing the worse it feels. If you stay busy and do stuff you'll keep your mind of things. This is a time for you to be you and shine. Dont look at it as an ending, but a new beginning, Hell your Alone again. Back to normal. Guys are everywhere, just gotta pick one. Soryy if i said something wrong, just trying to help. Hope your ok. smile....
Ben

[amanda_eight]

You already had Christmas presents for him! Clearly, you deserve an A+ boyfriend, not one who will dump you at Starbucks. :)

[evildoll]

Yes i do....i gave too much to this guy....thank you for caring and words of encouragement, it really helps.

[twigster]

Hi, thought I'd respond since I saw you awhile back. Guys are dumb, and you're right. He won't really what a good thing he had until a few months down the line. And then he'll be calling around again. Just don't give in cause you care about or feel lonely, sounds like an ass to me personally. And you know what? When he does call back, you won't even want him anymore, you'll see all those little quirks that you won't understand that you never saw before. Like with me and my recent ex, saw him a few days ago and it wasn't pretty. He really was quite infuriating. But then you'll know what you may want for your next relationship. Just take your time before you jump into another one, take a look into yourself to make sure there isn't parts of you that were made stagnant by being with him. Re-evaluate yourself, then you'll have a rough guess-i-mate of what kind of person you want. You sound too much like me, with means you are gonna have to start learning how to be more picky

[evildoll]

Thank you so much for the advice ashley...it was really good seeing you the other day. Yea things will work out and i plan on taking better care of me and making sure my needs are met. Maybe i'll see you around North harris sometime