IM convos for your reading pleasure
I was wrong. I've got a lot of Tony ones left. Oh well.
singswithmicoff (4:07:00 PM): *calls you*
xT Dawgxx (4:07:48 PM): *picks up* yeah?
singswithmicoff (4:08:10 PM): hi
xT Dawgxx (4:08:24 PM): hi
singswithmicoff (4:08:31 PM): How are you?
xT Dawgxx (4:08:42 PM): fine, how are you?
singswithmicoff (4:11:06 PM): I'm pretty good.. I wanted to apologize for yelling at you the other day or whatever about you telling Mark
xT Dawgxx (4:12:02 PM): don't worry about it, matt
singswithmicoff (4:13:10 PM): I feel bad. I shouldn't've said anything
xT Dawgxx (4:14:25 PM): yeah..whatever though
singswithmicoff (4:14:47 PM): okay
xT Dawgxx (4:16:05 PM): yep. you can get back to frank now
singswithmicoff (4:16:30 PM): I was kinda hoping maybe you'd want to hang out
xT Dawgxx (4:16:53 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (4:17:24 PM): Because we haven't in forever?
xT Dawgxx (4:17:42 PM): what's your point?
singswithmicoff (4:19:14 PM): I thought it would be nice. But if you don't want to, that's fine
xT Dawgxx (4:20:42 PM): i think i'll pass
singswithmicoff (4:21:03 PM): *sighs slightly* okay
xT Dawgxx (4:21:41 PM): *rolls my eyes when you sigh* yep. is that it?
singswithmicoff (4:23:22 PM): Yep. Sorry I fucking bothered
xT Dawgxx (4:25:09 PM): uh huh
singswithmicoff (4:26:23 PM): Why are you such an asshole?
xT Dawgxx (4:26:43 PM): because i can be
singswithmicoff (4:27:36 PM): You're certainly good at it
xT Dawgxx (4:28:21 PM): hey, thanks
singswithmicoff (4:29:10 PM): *rolls my eyes* you're welcome
xT Dawgxx (4:30:09 PM): got anything else to say? anything else you wanna call me?
singswithmicoff (4:31:07 PM): I wanna know why you're acting like this. I apologized for yelling at you the other day and I haven't seen you to do anything else to piss you off. So why are you being such an asshole to me?
xT Dawgxx (4:32:55 PM): your attempts to be the good guy and my friend are lame
singswithmicoff (4:34:15 PM): I'm not trying to be the good guy. Or even your fucking friend. I'm just tired of trying to explain to the babies why you and I don't talk. Or why you and I don't do things with them. There isn't any excuse
xT Dawgxx (4:36:56 PM): i have to go through that too, matt, you're not the only one
singswithmicoff (4:37:32 PM): Then why don't you help make it so that we can fucking do those things?
xT Dawgxx (4:39:58 PM): because
singswithmicoff (4:40:11 PM): Because why?
xT Dawgxx (4:44:23 PM): *shrugs*
singswithmicoff (4:45:21 PM): Tony, give me a reason. You seemed fine the day we hung out and now you've back to being an asshole. Why?
xT Dawgxx (4:47:09 PM): no reason
singswithmicoff (4:47:46 PM): What? Are you mad that Benji left? I breathe too much air? What?
xT Dawgxx (4:48:22 PM): what are you talking about?
singswithmicoff (4:49:05 PM): Benji and all of them went home, didn't they? Or have I just failed to notice the,?
xT Dawgxx (4:49:39 PM): they left a while ago.
singswithmicoff (4:50:00 PM): Is that why you're being like this because they're gone?
xT Dawgxx (4:50:12 PM): no
singswithmicoff (4:50:32 PM): Then why? What have I done?
xT Dawgxx (4:50:50 PM): i'm not being like anything
singswithmicoff (4:50:59 PM): Yes you are and you know it
xT Dawgxx (4:51:08 PM): no i'm not, this is just how i am
singswithmicoff (4:51:28 PM): Fine
xT Dawgxx (4:52:47 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (4:53:24 PM): You're not mad at Frank is here, are you?
xT Dawgxx (4:54:05 PM): nope
singswithmicoff (4:54:30 PM): Good. Because that's incredibly fucked up if that's why
xT Dawgxx (4:54:43 PM): it's not why
singswithmicoff (4:54:53 PM): Then there's a reason. Tell me
xT Dawgxx (4:54:59 PM): nope
singswithmicoff (4:55:20 PM): Why not?
xT Dawgxx (4:56:18 PM): leave me alone, matt
singswithmicoff (4:56:31 PM): No. I want to know why you're being like that
xT Dawgxx (4:57:15 PM): hounding me isn't going to make me tell you, so leave me the hell alone
singswithmicoff (4:57:57 PM): *sighs*
xT Dawgxx (5:01:13 PM): are you done yet?
singswithmicoff (5:05:27 PM): Since you aren't going to tell me why you're being like this, I guess
xT Dawgxx (5:05:55 PM): good. *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (5:06:10 PM): *frowns and hangs up*
xT Dawgxx (6:45:35 PM): *calls your phone and leaves a message* we need to cancel this show
Auto response from singswithmicoff (6:45:36 PM): Spending time alone with my children because their father is an asshole
singswithmicoff (6:45:51 PM): *calls you back*
xT Dawgxx (6:46:31 PM): *picks up* i need to fly back to town, you have to watch the kids
singswithmicoff (6:47:04 PM): Why do you need to go back town?
singswithmicoff (6:47:08 PM): ((brb))
xT Dawgxx signed off at 7:04:00 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed on at 7:04:20 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed off at 8:32:55 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed on at 8:33:09 PM.
singswithmicoff (8:38:09 PM): *calls you again*
xT Dawgxx (8:38:44 PM): *is already home when i answer* hi
singswithmicoff (8:39:02 PM): Hi. What's going on?
xT Dawgxx (8:39:21 PM): don't worry about it
singswithmicoff (8:39:51 PM): What's so important that you had leave and cancel the show?
xT Dawgxx (8:40:17 PM): brandon
singswithmicoff (8:40:28 PM): What happened?
xT Dawgxx (8:42:32 PM): he came home, he was thinking we didn't care about him because we didn't come to rescue him.
singswithmicoff (8:43:05 PM): Oh godd. That poor kid. He's okay though, right?
xT Dawgxx (8:43:58 PM): *nods* he's fine, he's with me
singswithmicoff (8:44:42 PM): *takes a deep breath* good. I'm glad to hear he's okay
xT Dawgxx (8:45:08 PM): there's shit he's not telling me though. i know he will eventually, i'm not pressuring him. but i know somethings up
singswithmicoff (8:46:24 PM): He'll open up to you eventually. He just needs to feel like he can....
xT Dawgxx (8:49:52 PM): he knows that he can *nods*
singswithmicoff (8:50:23 PM): I know. He's lucky to have you
xT Dawgxx (8:51:09 PM): *shrugs a little* i guess. he was looking for you
singswithmicoff (8:51:42 PM): He is. He was? Should I come back too?
xT Dawgxx (8:53:00 PM): no, i don't think so. the first thing he did when we go to the house was look for you
singswithmicoff (8:53:32 PM): *bites my lip* he didn't know...?
xT Dawgxx (8:55:26 PM): no, i guess not
singswithmicoff (8:56:40 PM): Are you sure I shouldn't come back? It's not much of a tour without you, performance wise
xT Dawgxx (8:58:33 PM): *shrugs* i don't know, you do what you want. but i'm spending a couple of days with him
singswithmicoff (9:00:25 PM): We're coming back. Brandon's more important than any tour
xT Dawgxx (9:01:24 PM): you gotta spend time with him
singswithmicoff (9:01:58 PM): I will. Why wouldn't I?
xT Dawgxx (9:02:24 PM): *shrugs* just making sure
singswithmicoff (9:04:16 PM): He's my family too, Tony. I care about him
xT Dawgxx (9:05:30 PM): alright, then come home
singswithmicoff (9:06:18 PM): Okay. I'll let Nick and Jeremiah know what's going on. Then the babies and I will be on the first flight home.
xT Dawgxx (9:06:49 PM): *nods* alright, what about frank?
singswithmicoff (9:08:10 PM): I'll talk to him and see if he wants to come back with me or if he wants to go visit his home for a little bit
xT Dawgxx (9:08:48 PM): okay
singswithmicoff (9:09:14 PM): Do you not want him to come back with me?
xT Dawgxx (9:11:33 PM): why would i care?
singswithmicoff (9:11:59 PM): I don't know
xT Dawgxx (9:14:15 PM): bring him
singswithmicoff (9:15:23 PM): Okay
xT Dawgxx (9:24:20 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (9:25:44 PM): You have until I board that plane to tell me if he's part of whatever problem you're having
xT Dawgxx (9:26:07 PM): he isn't
singswithmicoff (9:26:53 PM): Good
xT Dawgxx (9:27:21 PM): i'm not having problems
singswithmicoff (9:27:48 PM): You're just being an ass toward me because it's fun
xT Dawgxx (9:28:13 PM): sure
singswithmicoff (9:29:21 PM): *bites back a sigh* I really wish I knew what exactly was your reason then
xT Dawgxx (9:30:48 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (9:31:05 PM): Because I want to know
xT Dawgxx (9:31:51 PM): you don't have to know
singswithmicoff (9:32:12 PM): If it has to do with me, I should get to
xT Dawgxx (9:33:59 PM): it doesn't
singswithmicoff (9:34:23 PM): ..okay
xT Dawgxx (9:34:39 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (9:35:44 PM): I still wish I knew what was wrong with you
xT Dawgxx (9:36:39 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (9:37:04 PM): Because I care
xT Dawgxx (9:38:00 PM): there's nothing wrong, just drop it
singswithmicoff (9:38:33 PM): Of course there isn't
xT Dawgxx (9:39:37 PM): there isn't
singswithmicoff (9:39:51 PM): Fine
xT Dawgxx (9:41:35 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (9:42:03 PM): You aren't going to piss me off into giving up
xT Dawgxx (9:43:05 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (9:44:44 PM): You aren't. I was up till about 5 spinning and worrying about everything. But I don't care what it takes, or how much it pisses you off, I'm going to keep trying to repair some sort of relationship
xT Dawgxx (9:45:23 PM): you do that, matt
singswithmicoff (9:46:22 PM): I will, Tony. I don't care if you don't care. I still care
xT Dawgxx (9:47:08 PM): *shrugs* alright
singswithmicoff (9:47:23 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (9:48:16 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (9:48:41 PM): Why are you such a pain in the ass?
xT Dawgxx (9:50:29 PM): you think by asking that, i'm going to tell you whatever problem you think exists?
singswithmicoff (9:51:11 PM): No. I just want to know what you're being a pain in the ass
xT Dawgxx (9:53:32 PM): if you don't like it then don't speak to me
singswithmicoff (9:54:12 PM): No. It doesn't bother me much
xT Dawgxx (9:54:44 PM): kay
singswithmicoff (9:54:52 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (10:03:59 PM): I'm going to need you to pick us up from the airport
xT Dawgxx (10:05:26 PM): can you take cab? brandon's sleeping
singswithmicoff (10:05:50 PM): I can't get four babies into a cab
xT Dawgxx (10:07:58 PM): what am i supposed to do, leave him here?
singswithmicoff (10:08:26 PM): I don't know. Never mind. I will get them to my house by myself
xT Dawgxx (10:11:08 PM): i want to see them
singswithmicoff (10:12:40 PM): Well my car is at my house
xT Dawgxx (10:13:59 PM): so how would you get home anyway?
singswithmicoff (10:14:32 PM): I'll find someone to bring it to the airport. What else am I going to do?
xT Dawgxx (10:16:38 PM): i don't know
singswithmicoff (10:17:15 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (10:29:57 PM): Do you want me to bring the babies by when we get back in town?
xT Dawgxx (10:30:07 PM): please
singswithmicoff (10:30:58 PM): Okay. I'll drop Frank and Aaron off at my house then come over with the babies
xT Dawgxx (10:31:39 PM): who is aaron?
singswithmicoff (10:32:42 PM): The guy that's supervising the installations at my house. He said he'd bring my car to the airport
xT Dawgxx (10:33:27 PM): oh alright
singswithmicoff (10:33:43 PM): Yah
singswithmicoff (10:57:57 PM): *drops off Frank and Aaron when we arrive back in town. calls you as I pull out of the driveway*
xT Dawgxx (10:59:36 PM): *picks up* hm?
singswithmicoff (10:59:51 PM): I'm on my way over with the babies
xT Dawgxx (11:00:22 PM): alright, thanks
singswithmicoff (11:00:53 PM): Yah, of course
xT Dawgxx (11:07:03 PM): let yourself in when you get here
singswithmicoff (11:07:19 PM): Okay. I'm pulling in
xT Dawgxx (11:08:28 PM): alright *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (11:09:16 PM): *hangs up and parks. Lets Tegan and Aiden out of the car then Ben before picking up Natalie*
xT Dawgxx (11:10:31 PM): *waits, holding the door open, smiling when i see the kids*
singswithmicoff (11:11:03 PM): *holds Ben's hand, smiling as Aiden and Tegan run up to the door when they see you*
xT Dawgxx (11:12:49 PM): *squats down and holds my arms open, giving them both a big hug*
singswithmicoff (11:13:40 PM): *stands back watching as Ben waddles up to you, wanting a hug too*
xT Dawgxx (11:16:03 PM): *smiles and watches tegan and aiden rush inside, reaching to ben and picking him up, hugging him to me* hi, buddy!
singswithmicoff (11:16:58 PM): *kisses Natalie's hair, watching Ben grin at you and say 'i dada'*
xT Dawgxx (11:21:28 PM): *smiles and gives him a kiss as i stand up with him in my arms, moving over to say hi to natalie*
singswithmicoff (11:22:02 PM): *turns her in my arms, kissing her hair again, so that she can see you*
xT Dawgxx (11:24:26 PM): *leans in and kisses her cheek* aww look at you, you look tired *kisses her cheek again* hows my beautiful little baby, huh?
singswithmicoff (11:26:02 PM): *rubs her belly, watching her look at you fasinated* Can you say you are tired, Nattie? We fell asleep in the car but Daddy woke you up
xT Dawgxx (11:28:52 PM): *grins when ben leans in and kisses her cheek after me, saying 'nat'* that's right, benny boy, that's your little sister
singswithmicoff (11:29:29 PM): *smiles and kisses his cheek* you're so smart, Ben. You love your little sister, don't you?
xT Dawgxx (11:33:24 PM): *smiles when he says yes* aww such a good brother
singswithmicoff (11:34:06 PM): *smiles as well when Natalie looks at him, gurling* aw she loves you too
xT Dawgxx (11:36:15 PM): *laughs and pats natalie's back lightly, heading inside*
singswithmicoff (11:36:37 PM): *follows you inside, kissing Natalie's hair*
xT Dawgxx (11:39:26 PM): *sits down on the couch with ben in my lap, glancing at you* can i hold her?
singswithmicoff (11:40:11 PM): *nods* of course
xT Dawgxx (11:41:57 PM): *smiles and reaches for her*
singswithmicoff (11:45:34 PM): *smiles and hands her to you. sits on the floor next to Tegan and Aiden*
xT Dawgxx (11:48:29 PM): *holds her in my arms and stares down at her, smiling to myself as i baby talk natalie* you're so beautiful, you know that? huh, baby? i bet you do, nattie
singswithmicoff (11:50:16 PM): *smiles, listening to you talk to her and sees her stare up at you. hugs Tegan and Aiden when they crawl into my lap* hello my beautiful big kids
xT Dawgxx (11:53:38 PM): *leans down and kisses natalie's belly, still looking at her*
singswithmicoff (11:54:22 PM): *hugs both Aiden and Tegan, smiling at Ben when he points at me and says dada* hi baby boy
xT Dawgxx (11:56:22 PM): *smiles and ruffles ben's hair, pointing to tegan* who's that, benny?
singswithmicoff (11:57:23 PM): *kisses Tegan's hair, smiling when he says 'Tea'* very good. How about him? *kisses Aiden's hair*
xT Dawgxx (12:01:39 AM): *smiles and kisses his cheek when he says " 'den"* how about this, baby? *pokes ben's stomach gently* who's this?
singswithmicoff (12:02:31 AM): *grins when he giggles and says 'Ben'* You are just too smart, Mr. Ben
xT Dawgxx (12:04:51 AM): *smiles and kisses his forehead* verrrrry, good
singswithmicoff (12:05:26 AM): *sees him grin at you and point at you saying 'dada'*
xT Dawgxx (12:07:18 AM): *smiles and nods, pointing at you and asking him* anddd?
singswithmicoff (12:08:25 AM): *leans up and kisses his cheek when he says 'dada'* so good
xT Dawgxx (12:09:53 AM): we've got some smart babies, matty
singswithmicoff (12:10:52 AM): *smiles slightly when I hear you call me 'Matty' and nods* we do. I dunno where they got it from but they are some smart babies
xT Dawgxx (12:11:27 AM): psh, they get it from me
singswithmicoff (12:12:25 AM): *laughs* of course. How could I have forgotten? *laughs more when Aiden slaps himself in the face* THAT he got from you for sure
xT Dawgxx (12:13:19 AM): *laughs also and leans over to kiss aiden's cheek* nope, that's a david thing for sure
singswithmicoff (12:14:27 AM): *chuckles when he slaps you lightly* you're right, that is David *smiles when Tegan stands up to kiss where Aiden slapped you* such a nice girl, you got that from me
xT Dawgxx (12:15:55 AM): *grins* thank you, precious *glances at you* psh, no way
singswithmicoff (12:17:45 AM): *sticks my tongue out* yes way. I'm the nice one
xT Dawgxx (12:18:09 AM): nuh uh, i am so the nice lovato
singswithmicoff (12:18:43 AM): *laughs when Tegan giggles and tells you you're silly* see? Even Tegan knows I'm the nice one
xT Dawgxx (12:19:12 AM): *laughs* heyyy, you're supposed to be on my side *tells her*
singswithmicoff (12:19:41 AM): *kisses her cheek and grins* she knows which side to pick
xT Dawgxx (12:21:43 AM): alright, tegan *laughs softly* i'll remember that the next time daddy says 'no' and you come to ask me
singswithmicoff (12:22:46 AM): *laughs when she gasps and stares at you wide-eyed* You know all you have to do is pout at him and he'll give in, don't worry, Tegan
xT Dawgxx (12:24:05 AM): *sighs, defeated* well don't give it all away, matty!
singswithmicoff (12:25:07 AM): *chuckles, kissing her hair* sorry, Tone, but she might have cried if she thought she couldn't get what she wanted out of one of us
xT Dawgxx (12:27:06 AM): *laughs also and nods* i guess that's true
singswithmicoff (12:28:00 AM): *smiles* not because she's spoiled or anything
xT Dawgxx (12:29:22 AM): *rolls my eyes* not at all
singswithmicoff (12:29:57 AM): They all are
xT Dawgxx (12:31:43 AM): atleast they're not bratty
singswithmicoff (12:32:17 AM): Thank godd
xT Dawgxx (12:32:48 AM): *nods* mhm
singswithmicoff (12:33:16 AM): *kisses Aiden's hair* the boys aren't at least.
xT Dawgxx (12:36:12 AM): [i've gotta go, night <3]
singswithmicoff (12:36:29 AM): ((night :-)))
xT Dawgxx is away at 12:36:40 AM.
xT Dawgxx (9:21:59 PM): *calls you*
singswithmicoff (9:22:35 PM): *looks at the number, making a face* imagine that, you're calling now
xT Dawgxx (9:23:56 PM): first of all don't give me that fucking attitude, i don't need it. and second of all, fuck off and stop fucking harrassing my boyfriend. are you that lonely that that's what you have to devote your time to? it's not your fucking place to say anything
singswithmicoff (9:26:27 PM): Fuck you. I'm not harrassing him. He's the one that's basically saying that his children are more important than mine. Because everything is based on whether Benji thinks it's important or matters. I'm not fucking lonely. I've got my children and I've got my boyfriend who loves me enough that he's not fucking his husband and trying to get his ex-husband back too
xT Dawgxx (9:31:13 PM): that's not what he's fucking saying. wouldn't you agree that our children are the most important in our lives? shut the fuck up. don't ever fucking question my relationship when it's not your fucking place to. i don't doubt how much benji loves me. go to hell, matt
singswithmicoff (9:33:40 PM): It's different when he says stuff like that. When he says it that means they matter and no one else does. I don't have to question your fucking relationships. I'm got the shit he's told me. How's he going to be able to satify all of you, huh? You go to hell, Tony. You only fucking talk to me when he tells you I'm being mean to him
xT Dawgxx (9:36:28 PM): because you're a fucking dick and i don't like being around you.
singswithmicoff (9:37:27 PM): I fucking hate you. I can't believe I fucking stayed here. You don't like being around me? Great. I'm fucking out of here.
xT Dawgxx (9:41:56 PM): you can't go anywhere
singswithmicoff (9:42:11 PM): Yes I can. You don't fucking own me
xT Dawgxx (9:42:56 PM): i don't. but if you go anywhere, i can promise you that you won't be able to take the kids
singswithmicoff (9:43:27 PM): Who's going to stop me? I can take my kids wherever I want
xT Dawgxx (9:47:27 PM): you are not taking them from me
singswithmicoff (9:48:32 PM): They're my children. Start your own family with Benji. Then your children will matter
xT Dawgxx (9:49:12 PM): what the fuck are you saying? they are OUR children and i love them more than anything. you're not fucking taking them
singswithmicoff (9:50:36 PM): You do now. But what about a week from now when Benji decides they really don't matter? Then what? You follow his opinion on everything else. They'll just stop mattering too
xT Dawgxx (9:51:44 PM): benji would never fucking do that, he loves them. how fucking dare you assume that i'd put myself before them. those kids are my life. you're out of your fucking mind
singswithmicoff (9:52:57 PM): You put yourself and what he thinks before everything else, honestly how long can it be before you put yourself before them too? He doesn't love them. Benji doesn't love anyone that isn't a part of his family and even then he doesn't love them
xT Dawgxx (9:58:24 PM): you sound so damn riddiculous, you don't even know
singswithmicoff (9:59:17 PM): I know what I've seen from him. Maybe he's a different person but not to me
xT Dawgxx (10:01:14 PM): i know him better than anyone
singswithmicoff (10:02:04 PM): Good for you. I don't want to know him
xT Dawgxx (10:03:51 PM): then stop fucking going on about shit you don't know
singswithmicoff (10:03:58 PM): I don'
singswithmicoff (10:04:12 PM): don't have to. I can talk about your fucking boyfriend if I want to
xT Dawgxx (10:04:46 PM): it's pathetic that you do. don't you have anything better to do?
singswithmicoff (10:05:32 PM): Well I could go have sex with my boyfriend but I prefer to wait until my children are asleep instead of going at it with them there and walking around naked
xT Dawgxx (10:06:19 PM): is that supposed to insult me?
singswithmicoff (10:06:47 PM): No
xT Dawgxx (10:07:13 PM): you
xT Dawgxx (10:07:16 PM): you're lame
singswithmicoff (10:08:16 PM): Oh no. I'm lame *rolls my eyes*
xT Dawgxx (10:08:35 PM): and obviously mature
singswithmicoff (10:09:21 PM): I'm more mature than you'll ever be.
xT Dawgxx (10:12:09 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (10:12:43 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (10:12:52 PM): *hangs up on you*
singswithmicoff (10:13:01 PM): *calls you back*
xT Dawgxx (10:14:18 PM): *grunts* what?
singswithmicoff (10:15:06 PM): Hanging up on people, you really are more mature than me. How could I have questioned that?
xT Dawgxx (10:16:44 PM): get a life, matt, honestly
singswithmicoff (10:17:11 PM): I have a life. Unfortunately you're a part of it
xT Dawgxx (10:18:42 PM): sorry?
singswithmicoff (10:19:01 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (10:20:08 PM): are you done yet?
singswithmicoff (10:20:44 PM): Nope
xT Dawgxx (10:21:14 PM): alright, continue
singswithmicoff (10:23:38 PM): hmm what to discuss next
xT Dawgxx (10:24:25 PM): you tell me
singswithmicoff (10:24:59 PM): How about why you think I can't leave town with my children?
xT Dawgxx (10:26:11 PM): because they're mine
singswithmicoff (10:27:19 PM): Well considering the fact that by the time you noticed they or I were gone we could be halfway to Russia, I just really don't see how you can say I can't leave with them
xT Dawgxx (10:30:14 PM): godd'll get them back to me
singswithmicoff (10:30:48 PM): What makes you so sure?
xT Dawgxx (10:31:01 PM): because you are not taking my children from me
singswithmicoff (10:31:34 PM): If you and your boyfriend weren't such assholes, maybe I wouldn't have to
xT Dawgxx (10:32:06 PM): you don't have to
singswithmicoff (10:32:46 PM): Well gee, they're with me. And you seriously wouldn't notice them gone so how would you know?
xT Dawgxx (10:34:37 PM): you're such an asshole
singswithmicoff (10:35:06 PM): Only because you make me be.
xT Dawgxx (10:35:59 PM): of course, i force you
singswithmicoff (10:37:06 PM): I'm an asshole to you because you're an asshole to me.
xT Dawgxx (10:37:49 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (10:38:09 PM): It's true.
xT Dawgxx (10:38:19 PM): cool
singswithmicoff (10:38:35 PM): And there you go showing how mature you are again
xT Dawgxx (10:39:31 PM): yep, i'm just years beyond my age
singswithmicoff (10:40:36 PM): You are *rolls my eyes*
xT Dawgxx (10:41:47 PM): are you done NOW?
singswithmicoff (10:44:50 PM): Nope. Frank's reading the babies a bedtime story. They're taking a liking to him. I don't want to interrupt they're time together
xT Dawgxx (10:46:28 PM): i'm done. *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (10:46:39 PM): *calls you again*
xT Dawgxx (10:46:56 PM): *picks up* WHAT?
singswithmicoff (10:47:09 PM): Why are you so threatened by Frank?
xT Dawgxx (10:48:52 PM): i'm not, i think it's lame you're using him a tool to try to get a reaction out of me
singswithmicoff (10:49:50 PM): I'm not using him as a tool. I don't want your reactions anymore.
xT Dawgxx (10:51:02 PM): alright then. bye
singswithmicoff (10:51:51 PM): No. Tell me what your problem with him is. You stopped talking to me when he came onto the tour. You just hung up on me now. What's your problem?
xT Dawgxx (10:53:15 PM): i don't have a problem!
singswithmicoff (10:53:35 PM): Of course you don't
xT Dawgxx (10:54:27 PM): i don't care if you believe me or not
singswithmicoff (10:55:00 PM): I don't either
singswithmicoff (10:59:28 PM): Why do you make me be such an asshole to you?
xT Dawgxx (11:00:03 PM): i don't make you do anything
singswithmicoff (11:00:18 PM): Yes you do
xT Dawgxx (11:00:29 PM): no. i don't
singswithmicoff (11:01:52 PM): You do. You ignore me and start shit with me
xT Dawgxx (11:02:56 PM): i don't start shit, you start shit with my boyfriend
singswithmicoff (11:03:40 PM): And then you start shit with me. It's always going to be the two of you fucking ganging up on me and that's not fair
xT Dawgxx (11:04:29 PM): of course i'm going to protect him, so just don't do it
singswithmicoff (11:05:03 PM): I'll fight with him if I want to.
xT Dawgxx (11:06:31 PM): then don't get upset when i get involved, it's your own damn fault
singswithmicoff (11:10:40 PM): I'm going to fight when I feel like I'm being attacked. I'm not taking his shit
xT Dawgxx (11:12:15 PM): he wasn't attacking you.
singswithmicoff (11:12:35 PM): Not this time. I'm just sick of the shit he says
xT Dawgxx (11:14:10 PM): this conversation is going nowhere
singswithmicoff (11:14:53 PM): Just like every other conversation we have
xT Dawgxx (11:15:12 PM): which is why i don't like having them with you.
singswithmicoff (11:16:03 PM): Maybe if I weren't the only one attempting to make an effort, ever, they wouldn't be pointless
xT Dawgxx (11:17:22 PM): whatever
singswithmicoff (11:17:43 PM): It's not whatever, I'm serious
xT Dawgxx (11:19:51 PM): i don't want to put in effort
singswithmicoff (11:20:56 PM): That's fucking great. We can be the parents that hate each other. That'll make birthdays fun. And Christmas. Aren't our kids lucky?
xT Dawgxx (11:23:16 PM): yeah
singswithmicoff (11:25:09 PM): That's great. We should start making a schedule now. Every year can be the same. Seperate Thanksgivings, and Christmases, and birthdays. Better alternate Halloween though, they can only trick or treat some much in one night
xT Dawgxx (11:25:57 PM): okay
singswithmicoff (11:29:40 PM): I hate you
xT Dawgxx (11:31:02 PM): yup
singswithmicoff (11:31:47 PM): I hate you so fucking much, I can't begin to express how much
xT Dawgxx (11:32:07 PM): keep it comin' matt
singswithmicoff (11:32:45 PM): Why? Do you like knowing how much I hate you? Does it make you happy?
xT Dawgxx (11:33:01 PM): no
singswithmicoff (11:33:20 PM): good
xT Dawgxx (11:33:46 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (11:34:04 PM): Fucking stop that
xT Dawgxx (11:34:14 PM): stop what?
singswithmicoff (11:34:28 PM): 'mhm' 'yup' Fucking answer me
xT Dawgxx (11:35:46 PM): whatever
singswithmicoff (11:36:19 PM): No. Fucking answer me. This is a fucking serious converstation
xT Dawgxx (11:37:35 PM): uh huh
singswithmicoff (11:38:05 PM): Keep it up and I really am going to leave and the babies are going with me
xT Dawgxx (11:39:15 PM): fuck off, matt
singswithmicoff (11:39:51 PM): No! You don't take shit serious and this is serious
xT Dawgxx (11:40:09 PM): i'm taking it perfectly serious
singswithmicoff (11:40:36 PM): No you aren't
xT Dawgxx (11:41:24 PM): yeah i am
singswithmicoff (11:41:48 PM): Then answer me like a serious mature adult
xT Dawgxx (11:42:07 PM): don't order me around
singswithmicoff (11:42:54 PM): Why shouldn't I?
xT Dawgxx (11:43:17 PM): you have no fucking right to
singswithmicoff (11:43:45 PM): I can do whatever I want
xT Dawgxx (11:44:45 PM): i don't have to listen
singswithmicoff (11:45:53 PM): Hang up on me again, go ahead. Show me how mature you are again. Just don't be surprised when you finally realize your kids aren't there anymore
xT Dawgxx (11:50:16 PM): you can't threaten to keep me on the phone with my children, matt
singswithmicoff (11:50:52 PM): I'm not threatening you. I'm being serious
xT Dawgxx (11:53:10 PM): whatever, matt
singswithmicoff (11:53:45 PM): mhm
I'd feel bad about this but considering someone has mod powers and had be immature about all of this, I don't at all.
singswithmicoff (4:07:00 PM): *calls you*
xT Dawgxx (4:07:48 PM): *picks up* yeah?
singswithmicoff (4:08:10 PM): hi
xT Dawgxx (4:08:24 PM): hi
singswithmicoff (4:08:31 PM): How are you?
xT Dawgxx (4:08:42 PM): fine, how are you?
singswithmicoff (4:11:06 PM): I'm pretty good.. I wanted to apologize for yelling at you the other day or whatever about you telling Mark
xT Dawgxx (4:12:02 PM): don't worry about it, matt
singswithmicoff (4:13:10 PM): I feel bad. I shouldn't've said anything
xT Dawgxx (4:14:25 PM): yeah..whatever though
singswithmicoff (4:14:47 PM): okay
xT Dawgxx (4:16:05 PM): yep. you can get back to frank now
singswithmicoff (4:16:30 PM): I was kinda hoping maybe you'd want to hang out
xT Dawgxx (4:16:53 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (4:17:24 PM): Because we haven't in forever?
xT Dawgxx (4:17:42 PM): what's your point?
singswithmicoff (4:19:14 PM): I thought it would be nice. But if you don't want to, that's fine
xT Dawgxx (4:20:42 PM): i think i'll pass
singswithmicoff (4:21:03 PM): *sighs slightly* okay
xT Dawgxx (4:21:41 PM): *rolls my eyes when you sigh* yep. is that it?
singswithmicoff (4:23:22 PM): Yep. Sorry I fucking bothered
xT Dawgxx (4:25:09 PM): uh huh
singswithmicoff (4:26:23 PM): Why are you such an asshole?
xT Dawgxx (4:26:43 PM): because i can be
singswithmicoff (4:27:36 PM): You're certainly good at it
xT Dawgxx (4:28:21 PM): hey, thanks
singswithmicoff (4:29:10 PM): *rolls my eyes* you're welcome
xT Dawgxx (4:30:09 PM): got anything else to say? anything else you wanna call me?
singswithmicoff (4:31:07 PM): I wanna know why you're acting like this. I apologized for yelling at you the other day and I haven't seen you to do anything else to piss you off. So why are you being such an asshole to me?
xT Dawgxx (4:32:55 PM): your attempts to be the good guy and my friend are lame
singswithmicoff (4:34:15 PM): I'm not trying to be the good guy. Or even your fucking friend. I'm just tired of trying to explain to the babies why you and I don't talk. Or why you and I don't do things with them. There isn't any excuse
xT Dawgxx (4:36:56 PM): i have to go through that too, matt, you're not the only one
singswithmicoff (4:37:32 PM): Then why don't you help make it so that we can fucking do those things?
xT Dawgxx (4:39:58 PM): because
singswithmicoff (4:40:11 PM): Because why?
xT Dawgxx (4:44:23 PM): *shrugs*
singswithmicoff (4:45:21 PM): Tony, give me a reason. You seemed fine the day we hung out and now you've back to being an asshole. Why?
xT Dawgxx (4:47:09 PM): no reason
singswithmicoff (4:47:46 PM): What? Are you mad that Benji left? I breathe too much air? What?
xT Dawgxx (4:48:22 PM): what are you talking about?
singswithmicoff (4:49:05 PM): Benji and all of them went home, didn't they? Or have I just failed to notice the,?
xT Dawgxx (4:49:39 PM): they left a while ago.
singswithmicoff (4:50:00 PM): Is that why you're being like this because they're gone?
xT Dawgxx (4:50:12 PM): no
singswithmicoff (4:50:32 PM): Then why? What have I done?
xT Dawgxx (4:50:50 PM): i'm not being like anything
singswithmicoff (4:50:59 PM): Yes you are and you know it
xT Dawgxx (4:51:08 PM): no i'm not, this is just how i am
singswithmicoff (4:51:28 PM): Fine
xT Dawgxx (4:52:47 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (4:53:24 PM): You're not mad at Frank is here, are you?
xT Dawgxx (4:54:05 PM): nope
singswithmicoff (4:54:30 PM): Good. Because that's incredibly fucked up if that's why
xT Dawgxx (4:54:43 PM): it's not why
singswithmicoff (4:54:53 PM): Then there's a reason. Tell me
xT Dawgxx (4:54:59 PM): nope
singswithmicoff (4:55:20 PM): Why not?
xT Dawgxx (4:56:18 PM): leave me alone, matt
singswithmicoff (4:56:31 PM): No. I want to know why you're being like that
xT Dawgxx (4:57:15 PM): hounding me isn't going to make me tell you, so leave me the hell alone
singswithmicoff (4:57:57 PM): *sighs*
xT Dawgxx (5:01:13 PM): are you done yet?
singswithmicoff (5:05:27 PM): Since you aren't going to tell me why you're being like this, I guess
xT Dawgxx (5:05:55 PM): good. *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (5:06:10 PM): *frowns and hangs up*
xT Dawgxx (6:45:35 PM): *calls your phone and leaves a message* we need to cancel this show
Auto response from singswithmicoff (6:45:36 PM): Spending time alone with my children because their father is an asshole
singswithmicoff (6:45:51 PM): *calls you back*
xT Dawgxx (6:46:31 PM): *picks up* i need to fly back to town, you have to watch the kids
singswithmicoff (6:47:04 PM): Why do you need to go back town?
singswithmicoff (6:47:08 PM): ((brb))
xT Dawgxx signed off at 7:04:00 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed on at 7:04:20 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed off at 8:32:55 PM.
xT Dawgxx signed on at 8:33:09 PM.
singswithmicoff (8:38:09 PM): *calls you again*
xT Dawgxx (8:38:44 PM): *is already home when i answer* hi
singswithmicoff (8:39:02 PM): Hi. What's going on?
xT Dawgxx (8:39:21 PM): don't worry about it
singswithmicoff (8:39:51 PM): What's so important that you had leave and cancel the show?
xT Dawgxx (8:40:17 PM): brandon
singswithmicoff (8:40:28 PM): What happened?
xT Dawgxx (8:42:32 PM): he came home, he was thinking we didn't care about him because we didn't come to rescue him.
singswithmicoff (8:43:05 PM): Oh godd. That poor kid. He's okay though, right?
xT Dawgxx (8:43:58 PM): *nods* he's fine, he's with me
singswithmicoff (8:44:42 PM): *takes a deep breath* good. I'm glad to hear he's okay
xT Dawgxx (8:45:08 PM): there's shit he's not telling me though. i know he will eventually, i'm not pressuring him. but i know somethings up
singswithmicoff (8:46:24 PM): He'll open up to you eventually. He just needs to feel like he can....
xT Dawgxx (8:49:52 PM): he knows that he can *nods*
singswithmicoff (8:50:23 PM): I know. He's lucky to have you
xT Dawgxx (8:51:09 PM): *shrugs a little* i guess. he was looking for you
singswithmicoff (8:51:42 PM): He is. He was? Should I come back too?
xT Dawgxx (8:53:00 PM): no, i don't think so. the first thing he did when we go to the house was look for you
singswithmicoff (8:53:32 PM): *bites my lip* he didn't know...?
xT Dawgxx (8:55:26 PM): no, i guess not
singswithmicoff (8:56:40 PM): Are you sure I shouldn't come back? It's not much of a tour without you, performance wise
xT Dawgxx (8:58:33 PM): *shrugs* i don't know, you do what you want. but i'm spending a couple of days with him
singswithmicoff (9:00:25 PM): We're coming back. Brandon's more important than any tour
xT Dawgxx (9:01:24 PM): you gotta spend time with him
singswithmicoff (9:01:58 PM): I will. Why wouldn't I?
xT Dawgxx (9:02:24 PM): *shrugs* just making sure
singswithmicoff (9:04:16 PM): He's my family too, Tony. I care about him
xT Dawgxx (9:05:30 PM): alright, then come home
singswithmicoff (9:06:18 PM): Okay. I'll let Nick and Jeremiah know what's going on. Then the babies and I will be on the first flight home.
xT Dawgxx (9:06:49 PM): *nods* alright, what about frank?
singswithmicoff (9:08:10 PM): I'll talk to him and see if he wants to come back with me or if he wants to go visit his home for a little bit
xT Dawgxx (9:08:48 PM): okay
singswithmicoff (9:09:14 PM): Do you not want him to come back with me?
xT Dawgxx (9:11:33 PM): why would i care?
singswithmicoff (9:11:59 PM): I don't know
xT Dawgxx (9:14:15 PM): bring him
singswithmicoff (9:15:23 PM): Okay
xT Dawgxx (9:24:20 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (9:25:44 PM): You have until I board that plane to tell me if he's part of whatever problem you're having
xT Dawgxx (9:26:07 PM): he isn't
singswithmicoff (9:26:53 PM): Good
xT Dawgxx (9:27:21 PM): i'm not having problems
singswithmicoff (9:27:48 PM): You're just being an ass toward me because it's fun
xT Dawgxx (9:28:13 PM): sure
singswithmicoff (9:29:21 PM): *bites back a sigh* I really wish I knew what exactly was your reason then
xT Dawgxx (9:30:48 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (9:31:05 PM): Because I want to know
xT Dawgxx (9:31:51 PM): you don't have to know
singswithmicoff (9:32:12 PM): If it has to do with me, I should get to
xT Dawgxx (9:33:59 PM): it doesn't
singswithmicoff (9:34:23 PM): ..okay
xT Dawgxx (9:34:39 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (9:35:44 PM): I still wish I knew what was wrong with you
xT Dawgxx (9:36:39 PM): why?
singswithmicoff (9:37:04 PM): Because I care
xT Dawgxx (9:38:00 PM): there's nothing wrong, just drop it
singswithmicoff (9:38:33 PM): Of course there isn't
xT Dawgxx (9:39:37 PM): there isn't
singswithmicoff (9:39:51 PM): Fine
xT Dawgxx (9:41:35 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (9:42:03 PM): You aren't going to piss me off into giving up
xT Dawgxx (9:43:05 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (9:44:44 PM): You aren't. I was up till about 5 spinning and worrying about everything. But I don't care what it takes, or how much it pisses you off, I'm going to keep trying to repair some sort of relationship
xT Dawgxx (9:45:23 PM): you do that, matt
singswithmicoff (9:46:22 PM): I will, Tony. I don't care if you don't care. I still care
xT Dawgxx (9:47:08 PM): *shrugs* alright
singswithmicoff (9:47:23 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (9:48:16 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (9:48:41 PM): Why are you such a pain in the ass?
xT Dawgxx (9:50:29 PM): you think by asking that, i'm going to tell you whatever problem you think exists?
singswithmicoff (9:51:11 PM): No. I just want to know what you're being a pain in the ass
xT Dawgxx (9:53:32 PM): if you don't like it then don't speak to me
singswithmicoff (9:54:12 PM): No. It doesn't bother me much
xT Dawgxx (9:54:44 PM): kay
singswithmicoff (9:54:52 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (10:03:59 PM): I'm going to need you to pick us up from the airport
xT Dawgxx (10:05:26 PM): can you take cab? brandon's sleeping
singswithmicoff (10:05:50 PM): I can't get four babies into a cab
xT Dawgxx (10:07:58 PM): what am i supposed to do, leave him here?
singswithmicoff (10:08:26 PM): I don't know. Never mind. I will get them to my house by myself
xT Dawgxx (10:11:08 PM): i want to see them
singswithmicoff (10:12:40 PM): Well my car is at my house
xT Dawgxx (10:13:59 PM): so how would you get home anyway?
singswithmicoff (10:14:32 PM): I'll find someone to bring it to the airport. What else am I going to do?
xT Dawgxx (10:16:38 PM): i don't know
singswithmicoff (10:17:15 PM): yep
singswithmicoff (10:29:57 PM): Do you want me to bring the babies by when we get back in town?
xT Dawgxx (10:30:07 PM): please
singswithmicoff (10:30:58 PM): Okay. I'll drop Frank and Aaron off at my house then come over with the babies
xT Dawgxx (10:31:39 PM): who is aaron?
singswithmicoff (10:32:42 PM): The guy that's supervising the installations at my house. He said he'd bring my car to the airport
xT Dawgxx (10:33:27 PM): oh alright
singswithmicoff (10:33:43 PM): Yah
singswithmicoff (10:57:57 PM): *drops off Frank and Aaron when we arrive back in town. calls you as I pull out of the driveway*
xT Dawgxx (10:59:36 PM): *picks up* hm?
singswithmicoff (10:59:51 PM): I'm on my way over with the babies
xT Dawgxx (11:00:22 PM): alright, thanks
singswithmicoff (11:00:53 PM): Yah, of course
xT Dawgxx (11:07:03 PM): let yourself in when you get here
singswithmicoff (11:07:19 PM): Okay. I'm pulling in
xT Dawgxx (11:08:28 PM): alright *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (11:09:16 PM): *hangs up and parks. Lets Tegan and Aiden out of the car then Ben before picking up Natalie*
xT Dawgxx (11:10:31 PM): *waits, holding the door open, smiling when i see the kids*
singswithmicoff (11:11:03 PM): *holds Ben's hand, smiling as Aiden and Tegan run up to the door when they see you*
xT Dawgxx (11:12:49 PM): *squats down and holds my arms open, giving them both a big hug*
singswithmicoff (11:13:40 PM): *stands back watching as Ben waddles up to you, wanting a hug too*
xT Dawgxx (11:16:03 PM): *smiles and watches tegan and aiden rush inside, reaching to ben and picking him up, hugging him to me* hi, buddy!
singswithmicoff (11:16:58 PM): *kisses Natalie's hair, watching Ben grin at you and say 'i dada'*
xT Dawgxx (11:21:28 PM): *smiles and gives him a kiss as i stand up with him in my arms, moving over to say hi to natalie*
singswithmicoff (11:22:02 PM): *turns her in my arms, kissing her hair again, so that she can see you*
xT Dawgxx (11:24:26 PM): *leans in and kisses her cheek* aww look at you, you look tired *kisses her cheek again* hows my beautiful little baby, huh?
singswithmicoff (11:26:02 PM): *rubs her belly, watching her look at you fasinated* Can you say you are tired, Nattie? We fell asleep in the car but Daddy woke you up
xT Dawgxx (11:28:52 PM): *grins when ben leans in and kisses her cheek after me, saying 'nat'* that's right, benny boy, that's your little sister
singswithmicoff (11:29:29 PM): *smiles and kisses his cheek* you're so smart, Ben. You love your little sister, don't you?
xT Dawgxx (11:33:24 PM): *smiles when he says yes* aww such a good brother
singswithmicoff (11:34:06 PM): *smiles as well when Natalie looks at him, gurling* aw she loves you too
xT Dawgxx (11:36:15 PM): *laughs and pats natalie's back lightly, heading inside*
singswithmicoff (11:36:37 PM): *follows you inside, kissing Natalie's hair*
xT Dawgxx (11:39:26 PM): *sits down on the couch with ben in my lap, glancing at you* can i hold her?
singswithmicoff (11:40:11 PM): *nods* of course
xT Dawgxx (11:41:57 PM): *smiles and reaches for her*
singswithmicoff (11:45:34 PM): *smiles and hands her to you. sits on the floor next to Tegan and Aiden*
xT Dawgxx (11:48:29 PM): *holds her in my arms and stares down at her, smiling to myself as i baby talk natalie* you're so beautiful, you know that? huh, baby? i bet you do, nattie
singswithmicoff (11:50:16 PM): *smiles, listening to you talk to her and sees her stare up at you. hugs Tegan and Aiden when they crawl into my lap* hello my beautiful big kids
xT Dawgxx (11:53:38 PM): *leans down and kisses natalie's belly, still looking at her*
singswithmicoff (11:54:22 PM): *hugs both Aiden and Tegan, smiling at Ben when he points at me and says dada* hi baby boy
xT Dawgxx (11:56:22 PM): *smiles and ruffles ben's hair, pointing to tegan* who's that, benny?
singswithmicoff (11:57:23 PM): *kisses Tegan's hair, smiling when he says 'Tea'* very good. How about him? *kisses Aiden's hair*
xT Dawgxx (12:01:39 AM): *smiles and kisses his cheek when he says " 'den"* how about this, baby? *pokes ben's stomach gently* who's this?
singswithmicoff (12:02:31 AM): *grins when he giggles and says 'Ben'* You are just too smart, Mr. Ben
xT Dawgxx (12:04:51 AM): *smiles and kisses his forehead* verrrrry, good
singswithmicoff (12:05:26 AM): *sees him grin at you and point at you saying 'dada'*
xT Dawgxx (12:07:18 AM): *smiles and nods, pointing at you and asking him* anddd?
singswithmicoff (12:08:25 AM): *leans up and kisses his cheek when he says 'dada'* so good
xT Dawgxx (12:09:53 AM): we've got some smart babies, matty
singswithmicoff (12:10:52 AM): *smiles slightly when I hear you call me 'Matty' and nods* we do. I dunno where they got it from but they are some smart babies
xT Dawgxx (12:11:27 AM): psh, they get it from me
singswithmicoff (12:12:25 AM): *laughs* of course. How could I have forgotten? *laughs more when Aiden slaps himself in the face* THAT he got from you for sure
xT Dawgxx (12:13:19 AM): *laughs also and leans over to kiss aiden's cheek* nope, that's a david thing for sure
singswithmicoff (12:14:27 AM): *chuckles when he slaps you lightly* you're right, that is David *smiles when Tegan stands up to kiss where Aiden slapped you* such a nice girl, you got that from me
xT Dawgxx (12:15:55 AM): *grins* thank you, precious *glances at you* psh, no way
singswithmicoff (12:17:45 AM): *sticks my tongue out* yes way. I'm the nice one
xT Dawgxx (12:18:09 AM): nuh uh, i am so the nice lovato
singswithmicoff (12:18:43 AM): *laughs when Tegan giggles and tells you you're silly* see? Even Tegan knows I'm the nice one
xT Dawgxx (12:19:12 AM): *laughs* heyyy, you're supposed to be on my side *tells her*
singswithmicoff (12:19:41 AM): *kisses her cheek and grins* she knows which side to pick
xT Dawgxx (12:21:43 AM): alright, tegan *laughs softly* i'll remember that the next time daddy says 'no' and you come to ask me
singswithmicoff (12:22:46 AM): *laughs when she gasps and stares at you wide-eyed* You know all you have to do is pout at him and he'll give in, don't worry, Tegan
xT Dawgxx (12:24:05 AM): *sighs, defeated* well don't give it all away, matty!
singswithmicoff (12:25:07 AM): *chuckles, kissing her hair* sorry, Tone, but she might have cried if she thought she couldn't get what she wanted out of one of us
xT Dawgxx (12:27:06 AM): *laughs also and nods* i guess that's true
singswithmicoff (12:28:00 AM): *smiles* not because she's spoiled or anything
xT Dawgxx (12:29:22 AM): *rolls my eyes* not at all
singswithmicoff (12:29:57 AM): They all are
xT Dawgxx (12:31:43 AM): atleast they're not bratty
singswithmicoff (12:32:17 AM): Thank godd
xT Dawgxx (12:32:48 AM): *nods* mhm
singswithmicoff (12:33:16 AM): *kisses Aiden's hair* the boys aren't at least.
xT Dawgxx (12:36:12 AM): [i've gotta go, night <3]
singswithmicoff (12:36:29 AM): ((night :-)))
xT Dawgxx is away at 12:36:40 AM.
xT Dawgxx (9:21:59 PM): *calls you*
singswithmicoff (9:22:35 PM): *looks at the number, making a face* imagine that, you're calling now
xT Dawgxx (9:23:56 PM): first of all don't give me that fucking attitude, i don't need it. and second of all, fuck off and stop fucking harrassing my boyfriend. are you that lonely that that's what you have to devote your time to? it's not your fucking place to say anything
singswithmicoff (9:26:27 PM): Fuck you. I'm not harrassing him. He's the one that's basically saying that his children are more important than mine. Because everything is based on whether Benji thinks it's important or matters. I'm not fucking lonely. I've got my children and I've got my boyfriend who loves me enough that he's not fucking his husband and trying to get his ex-husband back too
xT Dawgxx (9:31:13 PM): that's not what he's fucking saying. wouldn't you agree that our children are the most important in our lives? shut the fuck up. don't ever fucking question my relationship when it's not your fucking place to. i don't doubt how much benji loves me. go to hell, matt
singswithmicoff (9:33:40 PM): It's different when he says stuff like that. When he says it that means they matter and no one else does. I don't have to question your fucking relationships. I'm got the shit he's told me. How's he going to be able to satify all of you, huh? You go to hell, Tony. You only fucking talk to me when he tells you I'm being mean to him
xT Dawgxx (9:36:28 PM): because you're a fucking dick and i don't like being around you.
singswithmicoff (9:37:27 PM): I fucking hate you. I can't believe I fucking stayed here. You don't like being around me? Great. I'm fucking out of here.
xT Dawgxx (9:41:56 PM): you can't go anywhere
singswithmicoff (9:42:11 PM): Yes I can. You don't fucking own me
xT Dawgxx (9:42:56 PM): i don't. but if you go anywhere, i can promise you that you won't be able to take the kids
singswithmicoff (9:43:27 PM): Who's going to stop me? I can take my kids wherever I want
xT Dawgxx (9:47:27 PM): you are not taking them from me
singswithmicoff (9:48:32 PM): They're my children. Start your own family with Benji. Then your children will matter
xT Dawgxx (9:49:12 PM): what the fuck are you saying? they are OUR children and i love them more than anything. you're not fucking taking them
singswithmicoff (9:50:36 PM): You do now. But what about a week from now when Benji decides they really don't matter? Then what? You follow his opinion on everything else. They'll just stop mattering too
xT Dawgxx (9:51:44 PM): benji would never fucking do that, he loves them. how fucking dare you assume that i'd put myself before them. those kids are my life. you're out of your fucking mind
singswithmicoff (9:52:57 PM): You put yourself and what he thinks before everything else, honestly how long can it be before you put yourself before them too? He doesn't love them. Benji doesn't love anyone that isn't a part of his family and even then he doesn't love them
xT Dawgxx (9:58:24 PM): you sound so damn riddiculous, you don't even know
singswithmicoff (9:59:17 PM): I know what I've seen from him. Maybe he's a different person but not to me
xT Dawgxx (10:01:14 PM): i know him better than anyone
singswithmicoff (10:02:04 PM): Good for you. I don't want to know him
xT Dawgxx (10:03:51 PM): then stop fucking going on about shit you don't know
singswithmicoff (10:03:58 PM): I don'
singswithmicoff (10:04:12 PM): don't have to. I can talk about your fucking boyfriend if I want to
xT Dawgxx (10:04:46 PM): it's pathetic that you do. don't you have anything better to do?
singswithmicoff (10:05:32 PM): Well I could go have sex with my boyfriend but I prefer to wait until my children are asleep instead of going at it with them there and walking around naked
xT Dawgxx (10:06:19 PM): is that supposed to insult me?
singswithmicoff (10:06:47 PM): No
xT Dawgxx (10:07:13 PM): you
xT Dawgxx (10:07:16 PM): you're lame
singswithmicoff (10:08:16 PM): Oh no. I'm lame *rolls my eyes*
xT Dawgxx (10:08:35 PM): and obviously mature
singswithmicoff (10:09:21 PM): I'm more mature than you'll ever be.
xT Dawgxx (10:12:09 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (10:12:43 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (10:12:52 PM): *hangs up on you*
singswithmicoff (10:13:01 PM): *calls you back*
xT Dawgxx (10:14:18 PM): *grunts* what?
singswithmicoff (10:15:06 PM): Hanging up on people, you really are more mature than me. How could I have questioned that?
xT Dawgxx (10:16:44 PM): get a life, matt, honestly
singswithmicoff (10:17:11 PM): I have a life. Unfortunately you're a part of it
xT Dawgxx (10:18:42 PM): sorry?
singswithmicoff (10:19:01 PM): mhm
xT Dawgxx (10:20:08 PM): are you done yet?
singswithmicoff (10:20:44 PM): Nope
xT Dawgxx (10:21:14 PM): alright, continue
singswithmicoff (10:23:38 PM): hmm what to discuss next
xT Dawgxx (10:24:25 PM): you tell me
singswithmicoff (10:24:59 PM): How about why you think I can't leave town with my children?
xT Dawgxx (10:26:11 PM): because they're mine
singswithmicoff (10:27:19 PM): Well considering the fact that by the time you noticed they or I were gone we could be halfway to Russia, I just really don't see how you can say I can't leave with them
xT Dawgxx (10:30:14 PM): godd'll get them back to me
singswithmicoff (10:30:48 PM): What makes you so sure?
xT Dawgxx (10:31:01 PM): because you are not taking my children from me
singswithmicoff (10:31:34 PM): If you and your boyfriend weren't such assholes, maybe I wouldn't have to
xT Dawgxx (10:32:06 PM): you don't have to
singswithmicoff (10:32:46 PM): Well gee, they're with me. And you seriously wouldn't notice them gone so how would you know?
xT Dawgxx (10:34:37 PM): you're such an asshole
singswithmicoff (10:35:06 PM): Only because you make me be.
xT Dawgxx (10:35:59 PM): of course, i force you
singswithmicoff (10:37:06 PM): I'm an asshole to you because you're an asshole to me.
xT Dawgxx (10:37:49 PM): alright
singswithmicoff (10:38:09 PM): It's true.
xT Dawgxx (10:38:19 PM): cool
singswithmicoff (10:38:35 PM): And there you go showing how mature you are again
xT Dawgxx (10:39:31 PM): yep, i'm just years beyond my age
singswithmicoff (10:40:36 PM): You are *rolls my eyes*
xT Dawgxx (10:41:47 PM): are you done NOW?
singswithmicoff (10:44:50 PM): Nope. Frank's reading the babies a bedtime story. They're taking a liking to him. I don't want to interrupt they're time together
xT Dawgxx (10:46:28 PM): i'm done. *hangs up*
singswithmicoff (10:46:39 PM): *calls you again*
xT Dawgxx (10:46:56 PM): *picks up* WHAT?
singswithmicoff (10:47:09 PM): Why are you so threatened by Frank?
xT Dawgxx (10:48:52 PM): i'm not, i think it's lame you're using him a tool to try to get a reaction out of me
singswithmicoff (10:49:50 PM): I'm not using him as a tool. I don't want your reactions anymore.
xT Dawgxx (10:51:02 PM): alright then. bye
singswithmicoff (10:51:51 PM): No. Tell me what your problem with him is. You stopped talking to me when he came onto the tour. You just hung up on me now. What's your problem?
xT Dawgxx (10:53:15 PM): i don't have a problem!
singswithmicoff (10:53:35 PM): Of course you don't
xT Dawgxx (10:54:27 PM): i don't care if you believe me or not
singswithmicoff (10:55:00 PM): I don't either
singswithmicoff (10:59:28 PM): Why do you make me be such an asshole to you?
xT Dawgxx (11:00:03 PM): i don't make you do anything
singswithmicoff (11:00:18 PM): Yes you do
xT Dawgxx (11:00:29 PM): no. i don't
singswithmicoff (11:01:52 PM): You do. You ignore me and start shit with me
xT Dawgxx (11:02:56 PM): i don't start shit, you start shit with my boyfriend
singswithmicoff (11:03:40 PM): And then you start shit with me. It's always going to be the two of you fucking ganging up on me and that's not fair
xT Dawgxx (11:04:29 PM): of course i'm going to protect him, so just don't do it
singswithmicoff (11:05:03 PM): I'll fight with him if I want to.
xT Dawgxx (11:06:31 PM): then don't get upset when i get involved, it's your own damn fault
singswithmicoff (11:10:40 PM): I'm going to fight when I feel like I'm being attacked. I'm not taking his shit
xT Dawgxx (11:12:15 PM): he wasn't attacking you.
singswithmicoff (11:12:35 PM): Not this time. I'm just sick of the shit he says
xT Dawgxx (11:14:10 PM): this conversation is going nowhere
singswithmicoff (11:14:53 PM): Just like every other conversation we have
xT Dawgxx (11:15:12 PM): which is why i don't like having them with you.
singswithmicoff (11:16:03 PM): Maybe if I weren't the only one attempting to make an effort, ever, they wouldn't be pointless
xT Dawgxx (11:17:22 PM): whatever
singswithmicoff (11:17:43 PM): It's not whatever, I'm serious
xT Dawgxx (11:19:51 PM): i don't want to put in effort
singswithmicoff (11:20:56 PM): That's fucking great. We can be the parents that hate each other. That'll make birthdays fun. And Christmas. Aren't our kids lucky?
xT Dawgxx (11:23:16 PM): yeah
singswithmicoff (11:25:09 PM): That's great. We should start making a schedule now. Every year can be the same. Seperate Thanksgivings, and Christmases, and birthdays. Better alternate Halloween though, they can only trick or treat some much in one night
xT Dawgxx (11:25:57 PM): okay
singswithmicoff (11:29:40 PM): I hate you
xT Dawgxx (11:31:02 PM): yup
singswithmicoff (11:31:47 PM): I hate you so fucking much, I can't begin to express how much
xT Dawgxx (11:32:07 PM): keep it comin' matt
singswithmicoff (11:32:45 PM): Why? Do you like knowing how much I hate you? Does it make you happy?
xT Dawgxx (11:33:01 PM): no
singswithmicoff (11:33:20 PM): good
xT Dawgxx (11:33:46 PM): mhm
singswithmicoff (11:34:04 PM): Fucking stop that
xT Dawgxx (11:34:14 PM): stop what?
singswithmicoff (11:34:28 PM): 'mhm' 'yup' Fucking answer me
xT Dawgxx (11:35:46 PM): whatever
singswithmicoff (11:36:19 PM): No. Fucking answer me. This is a fucking serious converstation
xT Dawgxx (11:37:35 PM): uh huh
singswithmicoff (11:38:05 PM): Keep it up and I really am going to leave and the babies are going with me
xT Dawgxx (11:39:15 PM): fuck off, matt
singswithmicoff (11:39:51 PM): No! You don't take shit serious and this is serious
xT Dawgxx (11:40:09 PM): i'm taking it perfectly serious
singswithmicoff (11:40:36 PM): No you aren't
xT Dawgxx (11:41:24 PM): yeah i am
singswithmicoff (11:41:48 PM): Then answer me like a serious mature adult
xT Dawgxx (11:42:07 PM): don't order me around
singswithmicoff (11:42:54 PM): Why shouldn't I?
xT Dawgxx (11:43:17 PM): you have no fucking right to
singswithmicoff (11:43:45 PM): I can do whatever I want
xT Dawgxx (11:44:45 PM): i don't have to listen
singswithmicoff (11:45:53 PM): Hang up on me again, go ahead. Show me how mature you are again. Just don't be surprised when you finally realize your kids aren't there anymore
xT Dawgxx (11:50:16 PM): you can't threaten to keep me on the phone with my children, matt
singswithmicoff (11:50:52 PM): I'm not threatening you. I'm being serious
xT Dawgxx (11:53:10 PM): whatever, matt
singswithmicoff (11:53:45 PM): mhm
I'd feel bad about this but considering someone has mod powers and had be immature about all of this, I don't at all.