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May 28, 2005 09:18


You know what...I dont know what your problem is, but grow up. If this is about me and Phil trying to be friends again, then you should stop acting like a two year old. Hes a big boy and he can choose who he wants to be friends with. Im not trying to make you mad by being friends with him. He was my best friend for like two years. Hes the only person who really knows me besides Kate, Laura and Justin. And I like to keep my good friends, cause they will be there for me whenever I need them and I will be there whenever they need me. Thats the way it works. Im not as mean as you try to think I am. I dont do everything just to make you mad. Thats not my goal in life. I dont want your boyfriend...I only want to be friends with him, thats it. I dont want to make you misrable. He can decide what he wants to do all by himself. Its fun to hang out with him. And, you want to know why we want to spend time with just him? Honestly, from my point of veiw...it seems like all you and Phil want to do is hump all day. Im not trying to be mean, but you guys are always messing around...that gets kind of irritating to be around...a lot of people get sick of it pretty quickly. I did, and Im sure most everyone else did too. Thats one factors in not wanting to hang out with you and Phil together, another factor is your attitude towards everyone. You are always mopey and pessimistic. Any you always wonder why people dont want to hang out with Phil when you are around, well theres your answer. No one wants to go out and be around someone who is always pissed off or mopey about everything. Its not fun to be around. I cant speak for Shawn and Justin, but as for Kate and I, well we dont really want hang out with you because of your attitude. We want to hang out with Phil because hes our friend, and he treats us like friends. That day when Justin gave Shawn and Kate a ride to get Shawns car...well they wanted a ride from us because they didnt want to go with you. You arent nice to them. You have told me first hand that you hate Phils friends, and that isnt a good way to start off a friendship. No one wants to deal with your attitude. Thats why we want to hang out with him. Not just me...Kate, Shawn and Justin too. I dont mean this in a mean way at all. Im just telling you why the four of us dont want to hang out with the two of you. Im not trying to be mean. Im trying to explain why we want to hang out with just Phil. And I guess that its his choice if he wants to hangout with us or not. But I thought that I would tell you because Im being honest. Even after all that has happened in the last few months, I dont hate you. Im a little more mature than that.

So basically, this whole thing is to tell you to grow up and realize that people can be friends with who they want and to tell you why some people have issues with you. Again Im not trying to be mean in saying any of this, but this is how I veiw this whole thing. Im sorry if you took this the wrong way, but not matter what you think, I didnt say any of this to be mean. Take it how you want to.
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