The New Girl

[twiceinlove]

Well, I'm new... plain and simple. A couple of you may know me from a previous community. In a nutshell... I had an affair... it ended before I was ready for it to... I completely fell in love with him... and I'm still in love with him. The twist?? (Because there is always one.) I'm also very much in love with my husband. And so the emotional

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[allmylilsecrets]

Hey can you add me? I tried to add you frist but i have to on your friends list to add you.

[twiceinlove]

I added you.

[twiceinlove]

Will you add me too?

Loving two men at the same time

[psychiatryst]

I feel your pain girl! I can relate to loving two men at the same time, fortunately not since I've been married. (There has been temptation though, that's for sure!) I can also say that marriage is the toughest and most challenging relationship EVER!!! This November will be four years for me and I have no good advice for you and your situation, cause I'm still navigating all the turns myself. But, now that you're pulled in two directions at once, have you figured out what led you to cheat in the first place? I would think a marriage, a vow you made till death do you part, is worth fighting for, but that's only true if your husband is worth keeping and you can find a lifetime of happiness there. Affairs have mystery, risk, intrigue, passion, emotion, seduction, allure... sometimes marriage can be predictable, boring, safe, reliable...Is it the romance of an affair or the man you love?

Re: Loving two men at the same time

[twiceinlove]

My husband gives me so much, but "he" gives me all that and more. But, I cannot hurt my husband.

Loving two women

[driftinghearts]

... at once, is the same thing for me. I LOVE my wife, and still love "her" as well. "She" does add an element to my life that nobody else can, though my wife is my partner for life.