Well, concerning the lover, I really dont know what to say. But in respect to your bf, why are you still with him? I mean, if he treats you that badly, just leave him. It really cant get any simpler than that. I am assuming you dont have any kids with him, so there really isnt any reason to stick around. Yeah, it might hurt a bit when you leave him, but it is better in the long run for you to end the relationship with him now....
As for your lover, well, caution is the best course of advice. Does he have kids with the gf? If he does then I can see why he is going behind her back (well, not really, but I have a good idea). If they have no kids together, then why not leave her? They arent married, and if they are unhappy, then why stick together.
You ahve to remember: men will lie and say things that sound good to you just so that they can get what they want. He just might consider you a fuckbuddy and nothing more. You are pretty young, so it would be easy for him to pull the strings and manipulate you.
im working up the guts to leave my boyfriend. i just dont feel strong enough to do it yet :/ he cant leave her because she pays for half of the house and hes not financially strong enough to live on his own yet (job doesnt pay enough, almost done going to school to become something else) we arent fucking as of now, so i dont think its quite that. i just have been so sick of hiding this from everyone and wanted to talk about it. so thank you very much for talking about it with me :)
sweetheart.. i really hope this hasnt gone anywhere.. first of all... you know it could be a crime in some states right? .... but other than that... go buy and read the book "hes just not that into you"... i think that would be REALLY good for you to read at this age and have that compass to really grasp what it is that is going on in a mans head. its one thing to be having an affair with someone and know they are with someone but hoping he will leave her.. than to be in it just for the fun of it with no expectations. cause #1 he will NOT leave her.. promise you that. but also at your age its going to be hella hard to do it emotionless... and i hate to think that you could learn to cut your emotions off at an early age.. they are there to protect you too. I firmly beleive that no normal 25 year old guy will be with a young girl unless there was seriously something wrong with him enough that keeps women his age away (or he is a straight up pedophile).... he may not be "strange" but trust me, he knows because of your age you will
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youre 16, you aren't even emotionally developed enough to be in a real realtionship. be 16, break up with both of them, and study for your driver's ed test.
Why would you trust a man that is 25 and sleeping with a 16 year old? That's a crime...not mention sick. Being open minded stops at the point of something illegal happening. Get away from him...now.
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As for your lover, well, caution is the best course of advice. Does he have kids with the gf? If he does then I can see why he is going behind her back (well, not really, but I have a good idea). If they have no kids together, then why not leave her? They arent married, and if they are unhappy, then why stick together.
You ahve to remember: men will lie and say things that sound good to you just so that they can get what they want. He just might consider you a fuckbuddy and nothing more. You are pretty young, so it would be easy for him to pull the strings and manipulate you.
Just remember....
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he cant leave her because she pays for half of the house and hes not financially strong enough to live on his own yet (job doesnt pay enough, almost done going to school to become something else)
we arent fucking as of now, so i dont think its quite that.
i just have been so sick of hiding this from everyone and wanted to talk about it. so thank you very much for talking about it with me :)
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