Is there a shrink in the house?

[eyeswatchinu]

Ok yeah I suck. I haven't been here in a while. I don't know where to begin cathing up. I have been going through a lot of changes and judt trying to function and get through them. I have moved into my guest room until I could move out. We are filing for divorce. It is done....... or so I thought

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[painther]

Honey , there are so many things going on in this letter ...
not knowing him , I can't speak to the sincerity or honesty but you can.
I could point out the flags here , the unhealthy statements , I could find all the positives....
I think what I should say to you is this ;
If this were your sister , your daughter or your best friend ...how would you advise her ?
How would you read this note then ? How would you guide your sister or daughter ?

I'm here dollface if ya need an ear or 4 ...e-mail me if you need my digits....
I love you Christina , I'm sending big hugs and kisses atcha !

[krazzy77grl]

I too wish I could adivse you.
I just know that I was in this EXACT spot a couple months ago. I didn't think I could EVER love Jim again. I thought it was ALL gone. And look at me now. You see how I struggle. You see how I hurt. You see how I am misserable. Sometimes you need a break to bring you back... You need to step back from it all and evaluate. It may bring you back together, it may drive you further apart.

[purplemoment]

wow... to me that was a plea from his heart to you. but i cant say or see how sincre this really is cuz anybody can write a letter. but i see this letter as him begging you for one more chance.

i say let him start proving himself to you in little ways before you let your guard down to him again..

be strong,

some things ARE worth fighting for.. if you feel your heart can handle fighting FOR it...

[firefairy902]

Sweetie I dont know him or you guys whole back story but I know how hard it was for you to make this decision and I know you didnt want to but for whatever reason had to .. You and I both know when they fear hte lose of us they change but after we fall back into the "relationship routine" they go back to there old selves. Stay strong sweetie and I am always here call me (856) 784-8691 I am usually home by 3 my time 2 yours Love you so much and tons and tons of *hugs!