This ones a bit more in-depth about me.
So, I took the bait on that eHarmony thing. I tried the free personal profile. I dunno how this portrays me...
Overview
* Because of your lenient and complacent nature, others with fewer scruples may take advantage of you. You could, perhaps, benefit from greater assertiveness.
* You are a good friend and are always willing to help those you consider to be your friends. You also show strong ties, and will be uncomfortable when separated from your friends for an extended period.
* You tend to be loyal to others. Your loyalty shows in a variety of ways including your "staying power" with relationships and activities.
* You may demonstrate positive possessiveness by developing strong attachments; however, you will not be overly involved as some others tend to do.
* You have a basic need to be supportive of others. You will agree with others, sometimes even if it's not what you really want.
* You tend to dislike sudden or abrupt changes. You prefer things the way they are. Your motto might be: "If it's not broken, don't fix it."
* You prefer a warm, friendly environment free of conflict and hostility. In that environment, you prefer reassurance of your involvement and self-worth.
* You tend to be a traditionalist, and will enjoy the social environment best if it is stable and predictable. You dislike sudden decisions about where to go or what to do, preferring to think things out first.
* Others may perceive you as being undemonstrative and self-controlled. Not wanting to be the center of attention, you generally support others.
Communications
* In communicating with others, you may support the mainstream ideas rather than new trailblazing activities. You may prefer the stable and traditional activities.
* In your group, you may support the group leader rather than vie for a leadership position yourself. As a result, the group leader will usually appreciate the support you bring.
* You tend to internalize conflict. As a result, if something about another is bothering you, you may bottle-up feelings and keep them inside.
* Others will notice that you are a sincere person about what you say and do. This trait, along with the excellent listening skills, creates an individual whom most people find pleasant to be with and a calming type of person.
* You have a communications style which many people are comfortable with almost immediately. You are sincere, a good listener, not pushy and overall a comfortable person to be near.
Strengths
* You are good at helping other people to reach their goals.
* You are very supportive of other people.
* You are very respectful of the needs and wants of other people.
* You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.
* You tend to be a very calming influence in heated situations.
* You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship.
* You like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion.
* You are very sincere in actions and words.
* You are excellent at listening to your partner.
* You are generally good at cooling down tense situations in a relationship.
* You are good at reconciling (i.e. you don't like to sulk after a conflict is resolved).
Needs
* Frequent appreciation.
* Status quo.
* Excitement and variety of activities.
* To feel important, but not be the leader.
* Freedom from many rules and regulations and the ability to write your own rules.
* Recognition for your loyalty.
* No close supervision--you don't want people to hang over your shoulder.
* A feeling of security.
* To feel safe and secure in social situations.
* No sudden or abrupt changes in the situation.
* Sincerity offered from others.
* An outlet to vent your emotions frequently.
After I took it, it told me I'm on of the rare cases they get where they can't match me to anyone. Which is roughly 20% of all potential users. Yes, go me...I'm unique.
Overview
* Because of your lenient and complacent nature, others with fewer scruples may take advantage of you. You could, perhaps, benefit from greater assertiveness.
* You are a good friend and are always willing to help those you consider to be your friends. You also show strong ties, and will be uncomfortable when separated from your friends for an extended period.
* You tend to be loyal to others. Your loyalty shows in a variety of ways including your "staying power" with relationships and activities.
* You may demonstrate positive possessiveness by developing strong attachments; however, you will not be overly involved as some others tend to do.
* You have a basic need to be supportive of others. You will agree with others, sometimes even if it's not what you really want.
* You tend to dislike sudden or abrupt changes. You prefer things the way they are. Your motto might be: "If it's not broken, don't fix it."
* You prefer a warm, friendly environment free of conflict and hostility. In that environment, you prefer reassurance of your involvement and self-worth.
* You tend to be a traditionalist, and will enjoy the social environment best if it is stable and predictable. You dislike sudden decisions about where to go or what to do, preferring to think things out first.
* Others may perceive you as being undemonstrative and self-controlled. Not wanting to be the center of attention, you generally support others.
Communications
* In communicating with others, you may support the mainstream ideas rather than new trailblazing activities. You may prefer the stable and traditional activities.
* In your group, you may support the group leader rather than vie for a leadership position yourself. As a result, the group leader will usually appreciate the support you bring.
* You tend to internalize conflict. As a result, if something about another is bothering you, you may bottle-up feelings and keep them inside.
* Others will notice that you are a sincere person about what you say and do. This trait, along with the excellent listening skills, creates an individual whom most people find pleasant to be with and a calming type of person.
* You have a communications style which many people are comfortable with almost immediately. You are sincere, a good listener, not pushy and overall a comfortable person to be near.
Strengths
* You are good at helping other people to reach their goals.
* You are very supportive of other people.
* You are very respectful of the needs and wants of other people.
* You are excellent at listening to the concerns and ideas of others.
* You tend to be a very calming influence in heated situations.
* You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship.
* You like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion.
* You are very sincere in actions and words.
* You are excellent at listening to your partner.
* You are generally good at cooling down tense situations in a relationship.
* You are good at reconciling (i.e. you don't like to sulk after a conflict is resolved).
Needs
* Frequent appreciation.
* Status quo.
* Excitement and variety of activities.
* To feel important, but not be the leader.
* Freedom from many rules and regulations and the ability to write your own rules.
* Recognition for your loyalty.
* No close supervision--you don't want people to hang over your shoulder.
* A feeling of security.
* To feel safe and secure in social situations.
* No sudden or abrupt changes in the situation.
* Sincerity offered from others.
* An outlet to vent your emotions frequently.
After I took it, it told me I'm on of the rare cases they get where they can't match me to anyone. Which is roughly 20% of all potential users. Yes, go me...I'm unique.