Feelin' The Pressure -- It's Wrong To Be Straight

[facing_myself]

I'm sure many people are going to be pissed off about my post. But wait... this post isn't my view on homosexuality and bisexuality. This is not against all non-straight people this is my experience this is my reality. If you don't agree with it it's fine, but it's still true in my life.

In my experience the whole (let's say non-straight group for

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[p3nguinprinc3ss]

I agree with this on so many levels. I am straight. I am not bi. I do think that although society has become more tolerant of homosexuality/bisexuality, its not the WHOLE of society, But this whole "tsunami" thing I feel has mostly come from fandom girls or silly people who are so desperate to prove that they are ok with wiht people being gay that they decide to.. I dno. Push everything

[facing_myself]

Yeah these people aren't my friends. They're just shit-talkers. And Petra is a pretty name :3

[jyuufish]

And you should be proud of that! It's rude and disrespectful to try to tell someone else what they are. You are straight and you are proud, gay people should be proud too. I honestly don't see why people have to sort of interfere in matters like that.

[facing_myself]

Thanks I think so too. I don't know.

[torchic44]

You don't seem like a bi person. Then again, you told me about some of your experiences with the same-sex. I really just don't know what to say. I mean, our society seem to believe that if you have some type of sexual experience with the same-sex then you are automatically bi (or gay). Then again, what would you think if you had a friend that had one lesbian experience or a minor sexual experience with the same sex?

I just have this crazy theory that everyone is slightly bi (in a sense that many people could find a same sex sexual experience). Other than that, do you think it is fine for a straight person to have one of those gay experiences arousing?

Note that I am not disagreeing with you. I just think that sexuality isn't straightforward at all (no pun intended).

[facing_myself]

No I completely understand.

To sum it up. In society if you have same sex thoughts (or more) you're atleast bi.

If you only think about the opposite sex you're straight.

But most of these people in society I don't even know so why would I constrain myself to their labels?

[torchic44]

Those labels are really just that... labels. I really think that many people do have same sex experience or a same-sex sexual thought yet remain being straight. I have read many stories about this in EP about guys who had a same sex experience but after that, they still have heterosexual lifestyles. Judging by one experience is just wrong. If you believe that you are straight, then you are straight. Don't listen to people that say otherwise. After all, only you know your own sexuality.

[facing_myself]

x3 amen BranBran

[swanntastic]

I do know what you mean -some people try to impose their own thoughts on others' sexual orientation. If you identify as straight, then that's all there is to it! It's how you feel and identify, not what other people think you should be.

[facing_myself]

exactly thanks :3