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[faeriemuriel]

I have been carefully avoiding the realization that I live for nothing right now, but it finally caught up. It caught up when the glee of having all of my Christmas gifts finished, Jon had wrapped them, and his mother had us move them out of the way of whatever it was she wanted. They sat piled on a chair. A miserably small pile. I felt all my

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[satyrsdance]

If his mother cannot be trusted to not stress out the bank account, she should not be allowed excess of the funds. My suggestion will come off cold but secure the recites and return everything. She put you in a shitty situation and this way you make it clear this type of behavior you aren't going to tolerate.

I can understand being depressed and frustrated; more so I can understand your partner being the same. However, Jon is going to have to talk to you because at the end of the day it's his mother and therefor his responsibility. A toxic living situation is not going to improve your depression. My advice to you would be to call someone in your family and move out of that house. There has to be someone in your family who will help you out and it never hurts to just ask.

You don't deserve to be treated like a slave or a child; you're an adult. Frankly, if Jon is unwilling to help you out as is his duty in being your partner, he isn't worth continuing the relationship with.

[faeriemuriel]

Thank you. I'm escaping, plain and simple. I'm gonna get through the holidays, because no one wants stress before Christmas, and then I'm out. Jon decided that he didn't want to talk about these options--I'm just going to have to try again, but then I'm leaving.

[satyrsdance]

Good for you. Never let the selfish hold you back. You are a great people and you deserve to embrace and be celebrated or it. Stay strong, girlie.