Dear "Helpful" Person In My Life,

[fairyrune]

If you are "just trying to help," I need you to actually listen to me. When I politely reject your suggestion once, as I have already considered it and decided to go in a different direction, that is not your cue to continue making that suggestion until I change my mind. That is not "being helpful," that is being a goddamn bully, and I am well

Comments

[craftyskwrl]

fuckin' AMEN. My mom does that type of shit to me all the time.

[ldykatrina]

This post is exactly why the BF and I had a big ugly fight last night.

so I feel your pain...

[softpaw]

Hate that so much! some people just refuse to see that their idea may not even WORK for whatever it is they are suggesting!