I'm a fox?? Believe it or not, you are one of the few people to ever say something like that to me (and since you're not my mom, I'm very flattered, because I know you don't have to say that!).
I keep hoping that you're right, and the one that is right for me is sitting right here all along...I just wish I knew how to find it without looking (since everyone says you never find it when you're looking for it).
I can see you're feeling very hurt and disappointed at the world. It is true that girls can be bitches, and not see the nice guy in you. Those bitches don't deserve your time or attention. I'm not saying that you'll not get hurt. You will, but you must detached your personal worth from their reactions. You are a talented, worthy man no matter WHAT girls or guys think of you. YOU must love YOURSELF.
"the fact that I couldn't get a girl who would sleep with any random guy in a bathroom to sleep with me has hit me square in the ego" :(. That does really hurt. But perhaps I dont think you should compare her actions in the bathroom with her behavior towrads you. She was impaired, and probably did not know what she was doing. If she was thinking clearly, she would've obviously chosen you over the random stranger. You just happened to not be there when she was drunk... Side note--go to many drunken fests? IDK.
I like this advice...particularly the 'detach my personal worth from their reactions'...that is something I truly think I need to work on.
As for the girl...I'm still bitter, but every time I start to get angry or hurt about it, I make myself write, or go for a walk, or do push-ups, anything to get my mind on something else, or to exhaust any energy I have so it's not spent on thinking about it. I don't know what kind of productivity will come from it, but the past few days have been a bit better than the one before. Oh, and actually, I don't go to many drunk fests...maybe I should start?? LOL.
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I keep hoping that you're right, and the one that is right for me is sitting right here all along...I just wish I knew how to find it without looking (since everyone says you never find it when you're looking for it).
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"the fact that I couldn't get a girl who would sleep with any random guy in a bathroom to sleep with me has hit me square in the ego" :(. That does really hurt. But perhaps I dont think you should compare her actions in the bathroom with her behavior towrads you. She was impaired, and probably did not know what she was doing. If she was thinking clearly, she would've obviously chosen you over the random stranger. You just happened to not be there when she was drunk... Side note--go to many drunken fests? IDK.
Good luck with everything, ok?
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As for the girl...I'm still bitter, but every time I start to get angry or hurt about it, I make myself write, or go for a walk, or do push-ups, anything to get my mind on something else, or to exhaust any energy I have so it's not spent on thinking about it. I don't know what kind of productivity will come from it, but the past few days have been a bit better than the one before. Oh, and actually, I don't go to many drunk fests...maybe I should start?? LOL.
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