Wow, hon. This is....this is A LOT. A very difficult situation. But let me ask you a few questions, if that's all right.
First off, why haven't you told one anothers' parents?
Secondly, how is he getting in the way of your dreams?
And finally, exactly how SERIOUS is your relationship? How deep do YOUR feelings for him go? Do you see yourself having a future with him?
I'm sorry if this seems.......impertinent of me. Feel free to ignore it if you feel so inclined. But I would like to be able to give you what advice and help I can. *hugs*
*smile* thanks. can't believe you read all that o_o;;;; I truly appreciate it. Ok um answers:
1) this whole thing with my father, he was portuguese and somehow my mom got racist against portuguese men and she told me to stay away from them cause she thinks their all abusive and what not. I'm afraid she'll seperate us.
2) He's getting in the way of my dreams because I want to go somewhere that I've always wanted to go, a job application you could say. And now I'm thinking of not going because it'll seperate us. but then I think we'll be seperated anyway in *thinks* 5 months..when he's moving.
3) as I've said before, I don't believe in love. But then again, if I were to think of anyone in the whole world I'd want to spend me life with, he'd be it. He's the guy I've always dreamed of meeting.
You'll never get in the way. feel free to say whatever =) I'm open to anything--good or bad. I just want to hear other people out before making my decision. it IS tough. and I thank you ^__^ *smoosh* a bunch.
Oooh, it's no problem at all. From what you've said and everything, the best advice I can give you is simply to FOLLOW YOUR HEART. Do what you feel is right. You have to live with yourself, and your decision, after you've made it. Don't rush your choice. Talk to your guy (if you're comfortable with that) and get his input.
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First off, why haven't you told one anothers' parents?
Secondly, how is he getting in the way of your dreams?
And finally, exactly how SERIOUS is your relationship? How deep do YOUR feelings for him go? Do you see yourself having a future with him?
I'm sorry if this seems.......impertinent of me. Feel free to ignore it if you feel so inclined. But I would like to be able to give you what advice and help I can. *hugs*
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Ok um answers:
1) this whole thing with my father, he was portuguese and somehow my mom got racist against portuguese men and she told me to stay away from them cause she thinks their all abusive and what not. I'm afraid she'll seperate us.
2) He's getting in the way of my dreams because I want to go somewhere that I've always wanted to go, a job application you could say. And now I'm thinking of not going because it'll seperate us. but then I think we'll be seperated anyway in *thinks* 5 months..when he's moving.
3) as I've said before, I don't believe in love. But then again, if I were to think of anyone in the whole world I'd want to spend me life with, he'd be it. He's the guy I've always dreamed of meeting.
You'll never get in the way. feel free to say whatever =) I'm open to anything--good or bad. I just want to hear other people out before making my decision. it IS tough. and I thank you ^__^ *smoosh* a bunch.
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