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[faminir]

I am 19 years old andhave yet to go on a real date

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[robes_of_earth]

If it makes you feel better---

*points to self* 31 and never had a (sexual) relationship. It's not so bad- at least, I don't mind: you seem to feel differently about it. What you've got to do though is make sure that YOU feel bad about for reasons other than what society tells you is right. I mean, society is barely ever right.

I've a lot of friends, and we're all very close. I don't really feel I'm missing out on anything because I get my romance from them. As for sex- meh. Sounds weird.

[faminir]

I wish I could be 31 and no sexual relationship, if anything its prolly my hormones acting up long after they should have years ago during puberty...eitehr that or lonliness. oh well

Thanks for your reply it gave me something to think about;

[miss_nightowl]

You´re not the only one out there. Trust me. *nods*

[lomear]

maybe...talking to her a little bit at a time about your thoughts and feelings on the whole thing would help. that way, if you don't spill all your thoughts at once, and just sort of get a sense of what she thinks, it would be easier and you would feel some better.

sometimes its good not to say things, and other times, it does you no good to keep it inside. i'm kinna talking from experience here. lol.

if it makes you feel any better, im 19 and never never ever went on a date in my whole life until i AFTER i got engaged...weird.

eh, yup...

[faminir]

I was thinking of talking to her about it but im not sure how exactly to do it. These are the times I wish I was a woman, Girls dont have to ask anyone out, they get asked out le sigh*